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Old 09-18-2008, 01:55 PM   #31
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It started after they were married. (they have been married 38 years)
He usually never goes anyplace with her..
He is a strange bird..
I have yet to call her, nor her me.
Maybe later..
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First, happy belated birthday Deb!!!

You have every right to be hurt. I had a friend who would do the same sort of thing - say she was coming, can't wait to see you, then just not show up and not call. Funny, but I stopped inviting her to things after about the 4the time. It was too frustrating for me and I started thinking that I had done something (knowing I hadn't). You can't keep being the one to 'try' and not get anything back. Sadly, we don't talk anymore, although I do hope things are fine with her.
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I agree that her lack of etiquette would be hurtful.

Is is possible that she or someone in her family has a disease or problem that she's uncomfortable telling you about (despite your long friendship?) I have a friend who's husband has a personal problem and, although she's totally up for anything, his needs often keep her from being able to show up to events -- and I usually don't know until the last moment or until the next day that "something" kept them from coming.

I hope you can find a way to maintain your friendship, but it would probably be best if you set your expectations that she is unlikely to show up for events.


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I agree that her lack of etiquette would be hurtful.

Is is possible that she or someone in her family has a disease or problem that she's uncomfortable telling you about (despite your long friendship?) I have a friend who's husband has a personal problem and, although she's totally up for anything, his needs often keep her from being able to show up to events -- and I usually don't know until the last moment or until the next day that "something" kept them from coming.

I hope you can find a way to maintain your friendship, but it would probably be best if you set your expectations that she is unlikely to show up for events.


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Some friendships fade away for no apparent reason. I would invite her next time but add that you know she's usually too busy to come to your events and see what she has to say....Good luck!
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I don't think you're wrong to feel hurt. :

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