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Old 03-01-2005, 12:14 PM   #16
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Karen, I know exactly how you feel. I lost my best friend years ago when he decided after two years of being inseparable best friends that he was in love with me. He was in the Navy and out to sea when he wrote me and told me this. I was already dating the guy who would become my husband. When the ship came back to port and we got together for the first time, I told him right away. He was angry, rudely wished me a happy life, and left.

To this day, I regret how things ended. I would love to talk to him and let him know I'm sorry, but I don't even remember where he's from, so I know I'll never find him. I even had a dream about him a couple nights ago, 15 years later!

I've never tried to find him, basically because I hope he has moved on and is deliriously happy out there somewhere. I make a quick wish on a star for him, smile, and remember the good times. I may have regrets, but I don't regret knowing him. And for me, that's enough. Good luck!
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Old 03-01-2005, 12:17 PM   #17
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I think you made the right choice. I totally understand the feelings though. Every now and then I run into my first love and I so wish we could be friends but we are both married and it is just not meant to be.
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How would Allen feel if you got back in touch with this man ?

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Karen, first off, you are definitely not being wierd. You are human and you can still have feelings. What Isabel said is what I was thinking, all though it would be nice meeting again as friends, if you still had feelings for him who knows what could happen. This wouldn't be fair on Allen or his wife.

I think if you bumped into him again, of course don't ignore him, but I'm in to minds about contacting him.

Sending you some pixie dust to help you make your decision. Keep us posted.

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Old 03-01-2005, 04:01 PM   #19
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It's a shame we have lost touch but I suppose it is just one of those things. As it's my 30th next month I think I have been feeling a bit reflective and that is why this has come up.

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Karen, that is so true! That's how I got back in contact with a couple of old female friends from school - we were all about to hit the 30 mark and wanted to track down friends from the past. We all still meet up from time to time whenever I go up there to visit my parents and they're around, but we all admitted that was the only reason we got back in touch with each other - because of the impending big 3-0!
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Old 03-01-2005, 10:06 PM   #21
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Karen I understand your situation. I had that "first love" that I thought I'd never get over. He even tried to nudge his way back in after he found out I was engaged. But I miss him terribly as a friend. However, I can't keep in contact with him b/c it's like he gets the wrong impression, and I don't feel it's fair to DH. And I am with Belle on this one, I can be a very jealous gal and I know I would be upset if an old flame contacted Andy.
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I think I would just leave it alone. Easier said than done I know. You don't know what might be in Pandora's box but once you open it, you can't close it again. No matter how pure your intentions, it still might not be worth the repercussions.
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I too would let it go Karen. I think it might complicate things for everyone.
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