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Old 10-27-2003, 07:45 PM   #16
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Our neighbors growing up were a catholic/baptist match. They agreed to raise all the boys as catholics and all the girls as baptists. The result was major confusion.

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Ok, now that's weird.



And so was your situation, Don. That sounds like a bad priest. To get married I had to promise to do everything in my power to raise any kids Catholic. The most heat DF got to convert from "non-practicing" to "practicing" was when the priest gave him a little guilt over letting me go to church by myself. I actually don't mind going by myself, I always thought religion was a personal thing and I don't want the man I'm marrying to be uncomfortable. He respects my choices and that's good enough for me. I guess I should feel lucky that we don't have his family giving him grief for marrying me!



I'm glad you all liked the test. But a couple questions: What does "mainline" mean? And are Quakers really that common?

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I'm glad you all liked the test. But a couple questions: What does "mainline" mean?

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I'm thinking middle of the road. Not left or right of center, not ultra conservative or ultra moderate.
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I came up 100% Unitarian Universalism. Interesting! 97% Mainline to Liberla Christian Protestants and 96% Liberal Quaker. Only 68% Ba'hai which I have always been interested in. Thanks for posting this!
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Great quiz, Rachel. I'm another mainline to conservative Christian/Protestant. I was raised Lutheran and still follow the Lutheran religion closely, as I have always felt comfortable sharing my beliefs in that setting. When DH and I first met, he said he was agnostic. He no longer claims that, and does talk about a Higher being...he requests prayers and has even gone to church on a few occasions. I think he is just not comfortable with organized religion itself, but would rather see people live their beliefs and faiths on a daily basis. We did get married in the Lutheran church (which he even suggested before I got the chance to say anything), and was comfortable with the service.

You really have a good hand on all this marriage stuff. Best wishes!
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When DH and I first met, he said he was agnostic. He no longer claims that, and does talk about a Higher being...he requests prayers and has even gone to church on a few occasions. I think he is just not comfortable with organized religion itself, but would rather see people live their beliefs and faiths on a daily basis. We did get married in the Lutheran church (which he even suggested before I got the chance to say anything), and was comfortable with the service.


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This sounds very similar to what I'm experiencing--right down to him suggesting a church wedding. He has always adhered to his own moral code, but over the past three years has dabbled in monotheism but has yet to fully define his beliefs. But he's mentioned praying when people are sick, and asks me to pray for him when he could use a little help in certain situations. I don't see him going to church an awful lot, but I still don't think it's out of the question (he may accompany me to Midnight Mass or Easter Mass if I ever bothered to ask.) He went with me to a Catholic funeral and lived, so I guess that's good.

He also has a lot of respect for Native Americans and their beliefs and customs.
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Great topic!

This is one of the the biggest heartaches in my life. I am a Christian, and God is the most important thing in my life. Andy, on the other hand, does not believe much of anything, and therefore feels everything that I do with the church, youth group, etc., is an incredible waste of time.

He was always good about letting me raise the boys in the church, but the cracks really showed when we went through tough times with them in the teen years. There was no united front as parents.

In short, I now completely understand why the Bible says not to be unequally yoked. If you are passionate about what you believe, and your spouse is not, or is passionate about another faith, it makes for some very difficult and trying times.
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