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Old 08-24-2016, 01:56 PM   #16
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Pixies to you. I know you do not like the idea of divorce but I always worried for you being married to him. You have the stable job and life and if he ever did anything stupid then they could come after you since you are legally married and have the house and income. I think a clean break is the safest for you. I would hate for you to loose everything you worked hard for because of someone else. Good luck.
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If it helps to know you're not the only one I have a family friend and an aunt who both left their spouses for almost the exact same reason. Crazy is crazy and making a safe and successful life for yourself is the best example for your kids, regardless of their ages. You should be proud of yourself for making the move all those years ago. Brava!
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I'm sorry you are going through all of this.
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Many to you as you move through the next steps. Under the best of circumstances, divorce is painful, and yours certainly don't fall into the best of circumstances category. However, and I hope you understand that I mean this in the kindest way, from your description, it really, really sounds like your life will be better when this chapter is closed. You've already taken steps to remove yourself from a hurtful, stressful, trying relationship. During the proceedings, it will be a great benefit to you that your children are now adults. If I could just give you one small suggestion? Ask for what you feel you deserve, but you'll be much happier in the end if you let go of haggling over those things that ultimately won't matter. Try to approach it by creating for yourself as little stress as possible.

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Pixies to you. I know you do not like the idea of divorce but I always worried for you being married to him. You have the stable job and life and if he ever did anything stupid then they could come after you since you are legally married and have the house and income. I think a clean break is the safest for you. I would hate for you to loose everything you worked hard for because of someone else. Good luck.


It has been something I've also worried about for you...he's so out of touch with reality.
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Praying for you as you take these difficult steps. As a pastor's wife, I just have to say that some of the craziness out there in the name of Christianity is appalling. I'm sorry you have had to deal with this and I'm glad that you weren't sucked in yourself. God has protected you and your daughters and He will continue to keep His hand on all of you.
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