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Old 03-14-2014, 10:20 PM   #16
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I met my fiancee (!!) on EHarmony in 2012. I had tried many different online dating sites over the years and found that EHarmony worked the best for me in the way that it was set up.
My biggest advice would be: BE COMPLETELY HONEST not only about who/what you are looking for and about yourself in your own profile.
I also had a 3 e-mail rule, because I had the experience that if I didn't want to meet someone by that 3rd email, it wasn't going to work. Also, I felt like if you do all your talking via e-mail then what do you have left to talk about in person.
As someone said above, you aren't going to find that perfect person in one date, there are still A LOT of frogs out there that need kissing. But, it can happen and when it does, you'll know because you'll have learned what you like and don't like from those who went before
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Well, online dating worked for me! I was 33, single and all my friends were married (most with children). I wanted a relationship but I lived in rural Maine...not much to choose from up here. I don't drink, feel very uncomfortable in bars and did not know many (any) single guys.

So, online it was. I posted my bio on Sept 19. I was COMPLETELY honest...that was really important to me. My last line was "All I'm looking for is a nice guy, but all the nice guys are know are married, gay or incarcerated." On Sept 20, I got an email from Dave...my future husband. Subject line? "Married, gay convict seeks high school sweetie." Obviously, a good sense of humor was important to both of us.

We've been together for 16 years and just recently got married (due to financial considerations). I'd say go for it! Take the great advice you've been given, be yourself and have fun!
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On Sept 20, I got an email from Dave...my future husband. Subject line? "Married, gay convict seeks high school sweetie." Obviously, a good sense of humor was important to both of us.
I have some responses to your email. FWIW, Shadowfax...awesome moniker! << wink >> I believe we must be somehow separated at birth. We're even in the same age range! Ok...here goes.

1. Please, for the love of all things holy, provide us with a spew warning when you say something like the above quoted line. I was drinking tea and laughed so hard I spent 5 minutes cleaning my monitor! That was PRICELESS!! Thank you for being my first belly laugh of the day!

2. Your recommendations are spot on.

3. Congratulations - It is nice to see someone else who didn't get married right away, and who has had such great success!

Oh, and I'd like to commend unewillow, on her 3 email rule. What a good idea!! Wish I had thought about that! Had I done that, I wouldn't have had to deal with a few of those goobers! LOL

Note to the seeking: It's perfectly fine to be cautious. Perfectly fine to spend some time (even years if necessary) healing from past relationships and getting yourself in order before sharing your world with someone else. But whether your 21 or 121, there's someone out there looking. There are 7 BILLION people on this planet...there's gotta be one who is right for you, and you'll never know until you start your journey. My dad says, "You can't catch a single fish if you don't even put your hook in the water!" Time to bait your lines, single ladies!
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I've purposely waited a long time. I just didn't want to bring men other than my son's dad into his life. After our split, DS was clingy, and it took him a very long time to overcome it. I have invested my time in him, and today he's more independent, even with still some limitations due to his Asperger's. He and I have talked about me possibly dating, and he's fine with it. I just need to decide when is the right time.
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Just throwing this out there -
There is a single lady in my office that has a high school aged son. She recently found out that one of his "parent grips" was that he didn't have any type of men/women relationship role models because his mom had not dated anyone while he was growing up. Not saying this is the same for any other kid, but I though it was interesting and she sort of did to.
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Just throwing this out there -
There is a single lady in my office that has a high school aged son. She recently found out that one of his "parent grips" was that he didn't have any type of men/women relationship role models because his mom had not dated anyone while he was growing up. Not saying this is the same for any other kid, but I though it was interesting and she sort of did to.
Oh, my son's dad has dated and even remarried within the past year! And along the way, we have remained (or maybe better to say rebuilt) friends, probably closer than we were when we were married. Before he remarried, we were known to spend part of holidays together, and we regularly had dinner together with our son. We just really wanted to maintain that family feeling, even though we live separately. It's an unusual relationship, to be sure, but it has worked for us. Also, along the way, I thought many times how any other man would probably not understand...another reason to wait. The new wife is good to my son, which is all that matters to me, and naturally I've stopped having dinners with my ex. We're what I like to call a functionally dysfunctional group!
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Definitely different than my co-worker. Her ex is TOTALLY out of the picture - they don't even know if he's still alive. So it really was just her.
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