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Old 10-16-2013, 09:05 AM   #16
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I agree that DH should have stayed with you on Easter. And I also agree that I'd Not want to be a part of that toxic bunch of folks. I'd let hubby know that it's time to start your own traditions, and your holidays will be spent together.... and not necessarily with his family. If he doesn't want to confront them, fine, but he's married to you, not his mama and sisters. And it Doesn't mean you have to put up with them for future holidays and events. You can politely decline those rare invites. Then plan some really neat, fun things for the 3 of you. And post Those pics on FB! The more they realize that you can have a grand life without them, the more they may rethink the situation. If they don't oh well....it's their loss.
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I believe the saying is something about a Man leaving his father and mother and he is to cleave to his wife.
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Thanks every one. DH and I had a long talk last night and he agreed its time to distance ourselves. Including him. He said, his family (meaning DD and myself) is the most important thing to him. He did speak with his mother again last night to let her know we will be keeping our space for a bit.She was upset but, once he explained why she was a little aggrivated but understood. Maybe that is what needed to happen. Again, thanks!
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Hope his family realizes how they were treating you. Glad your DH has closed ranks with you. Good luck going forward.
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I really do not know why this bothers me so much and I still want to be part of their family. Maybe this is what is will come down to, he can go and DD and I will stay home.
Celebrate your holidays separately? REALLY?

If you continue to do this, your DH is "telling" you, your daughter (AND his entire family) that he doesn't consider you or your daughter to be his family! And if that IS the case, you have way more to deal with . . .

If he DOES respect your marriage and his relationship with your DD, he needs to "walk the talk" and set boundaries with his family; if he misses a holiday or two with them, it will (hopefully) change their attitudes, or at least their behavior.

If not, you, your DH, and DD can make new traditions to fit YOUR family.

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Thanks every one. DH and I had a long talk last night and he agreed its time to distance ourselves. Including him. He said, his family (meaning DD and myself) is the most important thing to him. He did speak with his mother again last night to let her know we will be keeping our space for a bit.She was upset but, once he explained why she was a little aggrivated but understood. Maybe that is what needed to happen. Again, thanks!
Glad to hear it -- hope you all have wonderful holidays this year!
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