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Old 08-07-2012, 11:37 AM   #16
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I'm so sorry. The picture of your dad is beautiful.....he did look so healthy and happy. We were there to support my mom when she/we had to make the same decission concerning my dad. We all agreed that he wouldn't want to survive that way. He passed the next day, peacefully....."breathing" on his own...no machinery attached.. That being said, I already made that decission regarding myself. I spoke with all my children and have it in writing...it is my decission that if ever the case .....no artificial means are to be taken to prolong life. I lifted that burden from them......I don't want them to have to struggle with it as we (my mom and siblings) did. I know that we did make the right decission about my dad, but it was so hard having that "power" over someone elses life. I am so sorry, my regards to you and your family.
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I am so very sorry. Love and Hugs going to you and yours
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There are no words to take away the pain you are feeling. I am so sorry for what you are going through. If it helps at all though, please know that doing what your Dad "would have wanted" is really very brave and one of the most loving things a family can do!! I have often been on the other side when family members choose not to do what the person who is "in the bed" wanted and it is devastating to watch. Letting him go is hard, but giving him your love and respect is everything. The picture of your dad is beautiful!! I hope you will forever carry that image of him with you, and not the one of him in the hospital!
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I'm sorry you're having to go through this. It's great that your dad talked to you and your mom about what he would want, so many people don't. And it's wonderful the doctor is being up front about the prognosis, so many aren't - because they hate giving families bad news, they try to keep that hope alive when all we really want is the cold, hard truth.

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