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Old 04-16-2010, 03:15 PM   #16
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I had a man actually tell me he wished he could have a cool scooter like mine so he wouldn't have to walk, I was so lucky to be able to zoom around..

jerk you should have said i will trade you my fibro and my scooter for a full day of no pain
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OhDebbbbb!!!! I think we met the same guy!!!! I countered with "You give me the kidney I'm missing, & I'll give you the scooter"...harsh, but the look on his face was SO worth it!
LOVE IT!!!!!!

I don't have a name for these (well, I do but...), the one's who start yelling at you as soon as you come out of the companion bathroom (or going in one year) that it is for handicapped people. I like to point out to them that there are 7 ways between them that they are handicapped and then go on to list them all.

The part I hate is having to explain to my youngest why someone is yelling at us.
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I like to point out to them that there are 7 ways between them that they are handicapped and then go on to list them all.

Now I'm curious. What are the 7 ways?
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Now I'm curious. What are the 7 ways?
They are not physical handicaps (although a couple are according to the state of PA) but I don't make that distinction when I am rattling off.

Jack has Hirschprung's disease, small bowel transplant, has an ileostomy, heart murmur and is living with autism.

Sam has Hirschprung's disease, has no large bowel, heart murmur, sunken chest syndrome and Type 1 diabetes.

The hearts and chest aren't a problem at the moment but they are being watched closely.

We are LOADS of fun
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I am guessing the person with the bathroom prob didn't even need it ..
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In all fairness, they both did. One woman was with soneon in a wheelchair. I held the door open for them as they came out.

The other was 2 women with a child, I'm guessing in her 20's who, to me, had autistic tendancies.

Both times I was travelling with my kids alone. Surprisingly, not all woman are tolerant of a 13 yr old boy in the bathroom, autistic or not. I appreciate that on the outside my children appear normal but I get frustrated having to defend my use of a companion bathroom.

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In all fairness, they both did. One woman was with soneon in a wheelchair. I held the door open for them as they came out.

The other was 2 women with a child, I'm guessing in her 20's who, to me, had autistic tendancies.

Both times I was travelling with my kids alone. Surprisingly, not all woman are tolerant of a 13 yr old boy in the bathroom, autistic or not. I appreciate that on the outside my children appear normal but I get frustrated having to defend my use of a companion bathroom.

Sorry we got off topic
I apologize. I wasn't trying to be nosy. When I read the other post I read it as you were telling the OTHER people how THEY were handicapped in 7 ways. I was thinking of things like ignorance, intolerance, foot-in-mouth disease, etc. I was not reading it as you telling them what your boys' handicaps are.
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I don't mind it. I'd rather they ask than stare. I figure at least if they ask me, then maybe I can educate them and they won't be so quick to judge what they don't know.
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I also would rather have someone ask me (politely without gawking like an idiot) about the boys' disabilities b/c the guest that makes me irrational the most is...
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I don't mind it. I'd rather they ask than stare. I figure at least if they ask me, then maybe I can educate them and they won't be so quick to judge what they don't know.
See for me, I always get "what's wrong with you?" There is nothing wrong with me. I just happen to be sick.

My wife and I have a rule that we do not discuss health or disability in disney (past what we have to go get through the day).... It is our break from reality and doctors. I really do not want to discuss is with strangers! Especially since my condition is rare, which causes a several minute explanation before they get it...

Now when people say "what is wrong" I just say "I was born." (which is true, since my condition is congenital).
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The fakers - those that rent the ECV or wheelchair because they want to use it to "jump the line." They are often in groups and will often switch out who sits in the wheeled device.
(To be fair, I realize that sometimes there is someone in the group with a legitimate need for the wheeled device and that person will sometimes want break from sitting. At that point they will have another person in their party use the wheeled device so they can get up and walk a bit.)
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Not offended, don't worry. Takes WAY more than that! Did get some great ideas for smarty pants answers though!
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These people don't just affect those on scooters or in wheelchairs. I've run smack dab into the back of Center Stoppers. I don't understand how people can stop dead in their tracks or decide to have a family confab in the middle of the narrowest part of the sidewalk.
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