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Old 09-14-2009, 10:34 AM   #16
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Of all places where you should always feel self-confident, & accepted just the way you are, it is with your family. They behaved badly, & I am so sorry you had to go through that.
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Old 09-14-2009, 10:54 AM   #17
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For adults to do that is just inexcusable and cruel.

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What in the world?? I would be mortified if family, friends, or strangers did that to me. I've never heard of such............. I'm sorry you had to deal with that; that's ridiculous.
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My mom was thin, and so were all of my sisters. I always felt out of place, but at least none of them touched me !!!
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I think unless someone has been or is overweight, they just don't understand. I've
found that to be the case and it really makes me mad. My whole family is average
and I've always been overweight. They've never touched me, but comments always
hurt.

Take a break from the next family "assault" and if they do it again, tell them you
don't like it when they touch you. Stand your ground.
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Rachel, how awful that they did that , I would go bonkers if anyone grabbed my fat!
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I may seem way off-base here, but some of what you described borders on sexual abuse.....

I would make it known that NO ONE would be touching you, EVER. Stop going if that's the drastic measures you have to take.

Nobody has the right to touch you if you don't want it....and of course they will downplay it as "fooling or kidding".....surely doesn't sound like that to me.
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I am so sorry. families can be great but why do they spend so much time putting young people down??? If I were you I would hold my head high. Walk proud and love yourself. Then I would try to find a way to get revenge on anybody who gives you a problem. Did I say that outloud???

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Jeez, with family like that who needs enemies? So sorry your family did that to you. They must be very insecure themselves since they felt the need to make comments about you.
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Jeez, with family like that who needs enemies?
My DH is always telling me: Keep your friends close, your enemies closer, and your family as far away as possible!
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