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How old are your kids? I know that between all of us PP we can make sure they have another wonderful time with Dad at WDW. (If you want our help that is.)
We surprised the kids for our last trip and are doing so again this trip. however the oringinal reason for surprising them last time came because two years prior our first trip, (2005)they knew about and helped plan the older two anyway
(3 1/2yr old twins and the youngest was 11 mos) was postponed last minute due to illness. The disappointment was heartbreaking. however we told the kids we couldn't go because the plane was broken and the pilot would call when the plane was fixed. 3 weeks later we woke them up in the morning, rang the house from the cell phone, answered, pretended to talk, hung up yelled get moving that was the pilot, were going to disney! I guess you could say that was the first mini surprise trip.
In 2007 I wasn't going through that again, but I new that i wouldn't be able to pack without them finding out so we surprised them 1 week before the trip. this was perfect! We did a scavenger hunt that ended with a picture itinerary cut into a jigsaw puzzle. When the put the puzzle together they could see eveything we were doing and on what day they were doing it in pictures (they were 5 and 3). the screams and hugs and smiles will never be forgotten! Still brings tears to my eyes. We will surprise again this year, again about 7-1o days ahead. It allows for ease of packing and the kids can still have some input and time to talk about what rides etc they want to do. Of course park days and ADRS are already set, but they still get the fun of anticipation and surprise. Could your surprise be let out of the bag a few days early to allow for some of that input and excitement you are missing?? the surprise was still wonderful for us doing it this way. however you surprise her, she will be excited, you will have wonderful memories and are going on a fantastic vacation!!! hang in there!
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***August 2013 Kidani Village/ BC Club level***July 2012 BLT 1st stay as DVC members***January 2012 Poly Club level, grandparents first trip to WDW EVER! ***July 2011 BC DS 7th bday and our 15th anniversary celebration *** Aug 2010 bonus trip, we usually go every other year woohoo!!***July 2009 Beach Club *** August 2007 2nd family vacation Sheraton Vistana Resort for 7n & then 3n at POR!! *** June 2005 POFQ 1st Family trip
We are surprising DD4 and DS7 this year! We did not surprise them in 2007 - but it was a trip we still talk about on a regular basis!
We are going with a plan similar to NYKELLY. We aren't sure of exactly when we will tell them but we know that we need to set some expectations for our kids. We want them to "help" with planning - even though ADRs are set. We want them to know which resort we are staying at, and which parks we are visiting. Our budget is much tighter than it was 2 years ago, so compromises had to be made. We are staying one night longer but at a value resort. I don't think they will care at all - and I won't even say that part - BUT they LOVED the POFQ waterslide and ASMV doesn't have one. It will be fine though. We also won't be doing the Hoop Dee Do or CRT. But, we are trying some new character meals, since they dining plan is free again!
I love the Mickey Head ideas and the Scavenger Hunt! How cool!! I have already bought Mickey and Pals balloons. I can't wait to suprise them with the news! (DH is way worse at keeping secrets - so far so good.) We will do a short countdown and they can help us pack.
DH and I are both teachers and DD is starting Kdg Sept 9th so this trip ends our summer and celebrates her upcoming big day. We did the same thing for DS 2 years ago, at the same time. They will both be wearing new Disney outfits for the first day of school!
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A little background on our surprise trip, we go down to WDW about once a year our last trip was in Nov of 08 and we flew SW airlines and they lowered their prices an I ot a credit on the flts. We told the kids we were going to use these to visit our friends in GA. what we didn't tell them is that we were going to WDW and our friends were driving to Disney to join us on the way across the airport I handed the phone to my oldest so he could call their daughter and tell them we were on the way, she found out about the trip the night before when they were packing the car. LOL
We surprised our boys on our Aug '07 trip. Keeping the secret was REALLY hard, and we had a couple of close calls where the beans were almost spilled. But DH and I just woke them up early on departure day, wearing mouse ears, asking, "Who wants to go to Disney today?" It was pretty cool!
So now it's almost two years later, and I asked them if they liked being surprised with that trip, and they both said absolutely, YES!!! I think they will remember it forever.
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molly is going to be 8 and phillip is going to be 3 while we are there .
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