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Old 03-21-2009, 04:45 PM   #16
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I am so sorry! that you get it back!
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That's a terrible thing to do! I'd try to contact the buyer and purchase it back. Did you let her know how upset you were with the whole thing?
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That's awful....here's hoping you get it back!!!!

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Oh, I'm sorry - and hope you're able to get it back.
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Thanks for all of the great support! I haven't heard from the buyer yet but am hopeful...my grandfather was a member of the Bellows Falls, VT Elk's for over 50 years! It meant something to him and i'd love to have it. Thanks again to everyone! Passporters are the best!
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Please let us know when you hear something. You deserve to have that ring, & keep it in your family.
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I hope the buyer gets in touch with you....
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the buyer sells it back to you.
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Wendybell,

As a family lawyer, I can tell you what happened is not uncommon and I know you feel sad that your grandfather's ring is no longer in the family but I would guess what happened was what usually happens. Your uncle and aunt have physical possession of you grandfather's estate. Nine months have passed and they want to dispose of it, maybe so his home could be sold this spring. No one has asked for anything in particular nor have they offered to help with taking care of everything. So they decide to do the best they can.

If I were you, I would let my uncle and aunt know of anything you might like to have and see if you can get it before it is disposed of. If they are the executors of the estate, it may be their decision as to how personal property is distributed or there may even be a clause in a will saying that they are to sell all person effects and distribute the proceeds.

If you want anything else, at the very least offer to pick it up or pay for shipping. If your uncle was the sole recipient of your grandfather's estate and you want things of value, then you need to be prepared to buy them.

I think it's sad when people don't get things of sentimental value, but I don't think family members always realize how difficult it can be to be the person who has the task of taking caring of an estate.

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Diane...thanks for your insight. My mother and uncle were given everything; split up the middle. My uncle got the rings, watches etc...and i understand that they were HIS to do with as he pleased but i feel like at the very least, he could have notified other family members of the ebay auction so we may have had an equal opportunity to purchase the items fair and square.

Yes, they cleared out the house to get it market ready and i also understand that. The thing that i get upset about is that my uncle's wife makes her living buying things and re-selling them on ebay and she was always "shopping" at my grandparent's house...My grandfather and i had a very special relationship and he passed away on my birthday whichs makes this a very emotionally charged situation. Money isn't the issue here, anything i do have that belonged to my grandparents will NEVER be re-sold.

I did inquire about whatever was left and how i could go about purchasing whatever remained...there is nothing left. Thankfully; my mother took the double-leaf table, spinning wheel and depression glass so they will remain in the family. I appreciate your insight and am making every effort to be reasonable, it's hard.

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I hope you'll be able to get the ring, but if not, remember that it is your memories of your grandfather that are the most important, not physical belongings. I lost my beloved grandfather this past July, as well, and I love thinking of all the memories I have of him.
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