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Old 10-16-2001, 08:08 PM   #16
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I Love the Idea Whosez!
Count me in!

As far as registering,,, I would have to say this was one of my most favorite things to do! Put me in a store with one of those little gun scanner thingys and you can call me happy!

SO MUCH FUN!

OH! I just have to tell ya all cause I thought this was neat,, I am attending a friends wedding this Saturday, and her reception is at a club that just so happens to be running a haunted house/hayride in the building/woods behind it... she arranged to purchase tickets for everyone at the reception! We all will be going over to the spookhouse after the reception! The haunted house is staying open two hours later than normal to accomodate us!

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Old 10-17-2001, 12:29 AM   #17
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It has been a CRAZY couple of days!!! Will's mom is wanting to throw us a big engagement party at their estate in New Orleans... she called me this morning and said that he and I need to go register because people will want to bring gifts... I guess I am an wedding etiquette idiot because I didn't know this was the norm... I thought you registered for bridal showers... never heard of registering for an engagement party. What do you guys think??? Don't get me wrong... I am not going to look a gift horse in the mouth... lol... but I don't want to make Miss Manners come hunt me down for breaking the rules!!! I love Target so I know that's a definite for registering... too bad Disney doesn't have a registry!!! LOL

As for the wedding itself... we have talked about it and although my dear goofball thinks it should be sooner than later... I think we need more time than just 3 months to plan this shindig. We talked with Disney Fairytale Weddings and checked on a couple of different days... the one that I am leaning towards is Sept. 21, 2001... that's a year and 3 days to the date that we met... it's "off season". We've come up with some really "goofy" ideas for the wedding itself... it's definitely going to be an affair to remember!!! LOL
Of course you will all be invited... I just need a ton of addresses... LOL
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Old 10-17-2001, 12:52 AM   #18
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I'm assuming your Future MiL just wants you to register period. This way guests can bring you the gifts that you want to the engagement party, bridal shower and wedding. Register at a couple of different places and start thinking of all the things that you will need. You can register at Home Depot and at Tiffanys (the full spectrum there)
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Old 10-17-2001, 12:56 AM   #19
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My advice would be to register for everything at anywhere you can.... give people lots of choices for the engagement party, and shower, and wedding! I think its great! You could do your whole house that way! LOL!

My best friend got married on 9/21 and they are one of the happiest couples I know! I think its a great date!

We've been engaged almost 10 months, have had the date, etc. for 4 months, and have yet to register! [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img]
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Yup, Beth's right! A registry is just a general thing. It gives people an option to buy gifts for engagement parties, showers and the wedding itself. If you know that people are going to be coming from all over you may also want to register online at somewhere like www.weddingchannel.com . Make sure to register for a wide range of price points and don't be afraid to put the items you really want on! A registry is a "wish" list not a "demand" list. Above all - Enjoy!!!

And if you need anymore advice, there have been a slew of weddings around here recently. I'm sure Mrs. Potts and Aurora will be happy to help. I also have now planned 3 weddings (only 1 of which was mine!) so if I can be of help just let me know!
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Old 10-17-2001, 01:56 AM   #21
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Oh, yes! Let's have a cyber shower. That sounds like so much FUN! I also agree with the advice not to be bullied into certain things. I have 13 place settings of Noritake china which is taking up good closet space because my mom thought it was so important to have. And if that wasn't bad enough, she is now giving me Christmas China for Christmas every year - just what I need - more China! Only register for what you really want!

By the way, we planned a huge wedding in 3 months - no problems. It can be done. Oh, this is soooo exciting!
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As I am planning a shower for my nephew and his fiance, I would like to add my 2 cents. I agree with registering more than 1 place. Be sure and have a wide variety of prices. You and Will should hve great fun doing this! Follow your own mind not moms or aunts etc. Dillards and Target both have bridal registry available online. We also have Foley's here in Texas and they do this. I think they are in the same corporation as Marshall Fields (maybe) [img]images/icons/confused.gif[/img] . Belle's advice was great to checkout weddingchannel.com. I am so excited you are going to invite us. Keep us posted on all the latest. What would we do without it!! mary
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Sandy --
Fantastic idea about the cyber shower! Count me in! Now all we need is Will and Theresa's registry... [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
Theresa --
I got married 6 years ago. (We, too, were married at WDW) Since we had a "destination" wedding -- we had practically 0 guests at our wedding, which meant we received "pre-wedding" gifts from family and friends.
We registered at Target and at JC Penney. Some people bought from the registries --- others bought what they wanted to, and still others sent checks. I think registries are nice -- as they give the gift-giver some ideas, but they allow them to do the final choosing. I think choosing a couple of places to register is also nice, as it allows yout to vary what you are seeking.
Most places offer registries -- from department stores to big box stores (Linens & Things, Target, etc.) to specialty stores (like Pier 1 and Tiffany's). A wide range of prices is also a good idea.
As for the planning thing, we were able to plan our WDW wedding from start to finish in less than 8 months time -- and could have done so even earlier, if we had so desired. If Heidi is still in the wedding dept. -- ask for her. She was our coordinator, and she is awesome!
Also -- feel free to email me any ?'s you may have, too.
Happy planning, and how exciting it is that we can share your plans!
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Have to add my vote for the cybershower!! And you could always post a list of Disney wants on the board... true, you might get duplicates, but it could be lots of fun!!

Congratulations again!
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An online shower sounds like fun to me...and there are so many wonderful "home items" in the Disney Catalog these days! Who needs silver when you can have Mickey Flatware! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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whosez - I love the idea of a cybershower - count me in on that! [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]

Theresa - registering is a great way to avoid getting 4 blenders and 3 toasters [img]images/icons/wink.gif[/img] Plus it's really helpful to your guests who want to get you what you really want (inevitably there will be those set on getting you what they want, such as a five foot tall porcelain dalmation [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] LOL!) I agree with my fellow Passporters, register in more than one place to ensure all bases are covered and also to give your guests lots of choices.

What fun! I love weddings!!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

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Old 10-18-2001, 12:23 AM   #27
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It's funny though, because everyone registers so you can get what you want. When the ladies in my church gave me a shower quite a few of them looked at my registry, then decided on their own that, for example, they didn't like the iron I had picked out and would be better off with the brand they used at home. When they gave me the gift they were actually proud of themselves for taking the initiative and giving me what I needed instead of what I wanted.

By the way...add my vote to the list in favor of the shower!
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I'm all for the cyber shower! I hope your planning is going well. I'll wait until you guys finalize your date before I plan my annual fall trip. [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]
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Since I still have one to go, I have been checking out the Disney wedding and they seem to be truly reasonable. If I can't get married there I would love to just attend a wedding. Don't be afraid to put too much on your registry. When Mandy got married she registered at a few places and no one even went to one of them, Service merchandise.
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