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To a new day, we go on.

It's time to move on and move forward.

PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.

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Old 03-09-2004, 08:13 AM   #16
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Sending lots of your way. Hopefully you'll be able to put it all behind you and enjoy your trip!
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Old 03-09-2004, 08:27 AM   #17
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We've all been there one time or another! Best wishes and I know that going to WDW will help!
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Old 03-09-2004, 10:45 AM   #18
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"Breaking up" is difficult, no matter who it is - friends included! If you felt that she was bringing you down (and she seems rather immature) then you did the right thing. Now you can focus whatever time and effort you were giving to her to other aspects of your life - like packing!
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Sorry to hear that things went so badly. I hope you will be able to dust yourself off and keep to the high road. If she wants to be immature and air her side of the story to your classmates, don't let that affect you. That trip of yours sounds like it's the perfect remedy at the perfect time.
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What a tough situation. Sending you more and to get you through.
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Here is some more Pixie Dust Hope you are feeling better today. So sorry to hear about such an awful situation. I have a feeling, though, that the magic of the Mouse will take all your bad feelings away! Enjoy your trip!
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Tough thing to do but I know you saw it coming. Now put it out of your mind as you've got more important things to think about!
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Old 03-09-2004, 01:00 PM   #23
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Maureen I'm so sorry. The decision to terminate any relationship is difficult but it doesn't sound like you took it lightly. It is one thing to support a friend but completely another to be consumed by them. Here's some that you'll be feeling better about this decision soon.
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Thank you so much everyone for your kind words and support. I will have to see her again tonight as she is in this night class as well but I have a feeling she will avoid me and luckily, one of my best friends will be right by my side- as well as a long trail of pixie dust from you all behind me. I am feeling a bit better and starting to put it behind me- I have a feeling after class tonight I will be really moving on!

Thanks again you guys!
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Old 03-09-2004, 05:52 PM   #25
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Hope all goes well tonight Enjoy your "Mickey therapy"
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So sorry to hear about the situation but it looks like you handled it pretty well. I had something like that happen to me a few years ago. Our daughters would either really get along or not - she'd of course call me every time my Emily did something - or not. You know she had the "perfect" daughter. Anyway to make a long story short the girls were having problems on the bus (each of them contributed) What I found out about Emily I corrected and handed out punishment accordingly. Well she called me up - screaming at me! I remained calm until she called my daughter a "f****** b****" Then I lost it. Anyhow - I'm nice to her when I see her at school - smile and say hi. (which I think actually freaks her out) What's so hard about these things is what others here have mentioned - you can't just make a clean break - you end up seeing them everywhere - especially at school ! And, you don't want to make your friends uncomfortable if they are still on good terms with them. I just stay silent the best I can - even if they are back talking me.
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Sorry to hear this Maureen. If it helps any, the difficult experiences we go through in life mold us into a better person. I'm sure your experience with this person will make you a better friend to others!

Have a great time at Disney!!!
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