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Old 10-31-2015, 02:30 PM   #1
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DH thinks I'm nuts, you tell me...

As I'm sure some of you have "heard", DD Kathryn is in France. She didn't have a good start to her time there, but that's settling out and she's really starting to enjoy her life (Going to Paris for dinners and movies with an old friend, heading for the weekend to Strasbourg, going to DLP for Halloween - yeah, I'm jealous!, she's planning a wine country trip, and may be heading to Italy or Spain for Spring break) - anyway, what's really been getting to her this past few weeks is the non-Halloween. Holidays are huge in our home, mostly Halloween and Christmas, but Thanksgiving is a wonderful time too.
My sister was in Switzerland earlier this month, and took the 1 hour train ride to visit Kathryn. I had her take a care package - the coat liner she forgot, some smart phone gloves, a scarf I thought was cute, a book on Hidden Mickeys, and some Halloween candy. Kathryn loved it.
So, I'm thinking of sending her a Thanksgiving care package: all dry/powdered mixes; pumpkin bars, Stove top stuffing, instant potatoes, instant gravy, cranberry jello, Thanksgiving paper plates and napkins, and I don't know ....
Trying to think what else. Does anyone have any ideas?
I'm going to the the grocery on Sunday and hoping to have it ready to mail on Tuesday, to make sure it gets there on time.
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Old 10-31-2015, 03:14 PM   #2
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Maybe a really small decorative piece?

I don't think you're nuts. I think it's very thoughtful, and Kathryn will really appreciate it.
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I love this idea. And I'm positive Kathryn will cry when she opens the package...if you let it be a surprise.
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You are not nuts at all. I think Kathryn will love it and, as mentioned, probably shed a few tears as well.
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I think that's an awesome idea! Very thoughtful, and I'll bet she will be so surprised!
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I always loved small care packages from home - I would suggest a package or 2 of decorative fake leaves. She could spread them out around her apartment and they really add something. Used them recently for a meeting and it really worked some fall magic on the empty hall. Also my son just received a chalk pumpkin as a gift that came from walmart. It was a nice fall touch and it could be used for notes or drawing a fun pic.

When I was away at school my mom sent small meaningful gifts/treasures that I could unwrap one at a time only when I was having one of those days. She included favorite candies, cocoa, tea, a favorite book from childhood, a cute magnet off our fridge at home, etc. Sometimes they included a note saying why she picked that item and why it should cheer me. They really helped on those homesick lonely days.

What can you buy at home - food or snack that is unavailable for purchase there...my cousin walkways asks for peanut butter and mac & cheese bc she can't get them in Korea. Just a thought.
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What can you buy at home - food or snack that is unavailable for purchase there...my cousin walkways asks for peanut butter and mac & cheese bc she can't get them in Korea. Just a thought.
I love this! We took peanut butter when she moved there, two very large jars. I'm sure she's still got plenty left. But, so good ol' Mac and Cheese would probably hit the spot, too. Comfort foods! Thank you so very much! I want her to have as close to a Thanksgiving as she can. Yet, some comfort foods for other times might be well appreciated.
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I think it's a great idea - your daughter can't be home for the holiday so what's so nuts about sending a little bit of the holidays to her? I'm not sure what decorations you or she would like but at school, I have a wax turkey that was suppose to be a candle. I also have some of those centerpiece turkeys. You know the kind, it comes flat but then you open it and it has tissue paper for the body, etc. We also have different pictures and window clings I hang up. She might like some of those but I'm thinking more a centerpiece type of something for her table. Good luck deciding what to send her.
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I think it's a great idea - your daughter can't be home for the holiday so what's so nuts about sending a little bit of the holidays to her? I'm not sure what decorations you or she would like but at school, I have a wax turkey that was suppose to be a candle. I also have some of those centerpiece turkeys. You know the kind, it comes flat but then you open it and it has tissue paper for the body, etc. We also have different pictures and window clings I hang up. She might like some of those but I'm thinking more a centerpiece type of something for her table. Good luck deciding what to send her.
I love the ideas! She doesn't have a table - she has a studio with a counter that is actually fairly large, but I'm sure she could stick a turkey somewhere!

Thank you all so much. DH just thinks sending the instant stuff is silly. He doesn't know why she can't just figure things out there.
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I think it's a wonderful idea and I think Kathryn will love it.
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We lived in Germany and Holland. And my German neighbors loved our jack-a-lanterns!
Here some thoughts for your care pkg:
Thanksgiving napkins, postcards from your hometown; themed stamped post-its (these are so easy to diy and you can make a homemade flip book, self addressed envelope (postage wouldn't help her), hair ribbons for Thanksgiving and Christmas; and lastly colorful, funky holiday socks.
Hope she gets a chance to skirt across the border to a German Christmas Market - Trier is about 3 hours from Paris - just so much to do all around those areas.
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Fall colors of crepe paper streamers, maybe? You can drape those lots of places for a festive look. Rather than send whole rolls which would be a bit much in a studio, you could wrap some around a toilet roll or paper towel tube.

Check Dollar Tree for small, inexpensive holiday decorative items.
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I love the care package Idea. How about a stuffed turkey. I know beanie babies used to have a small one. My mother sent me one while I was in college and every year I get it out I just laugh. It brings back great memories
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I am not sure why your DH thinks you are crazy. Will your DD use the things you send her? Can she make her own fresh? I am not sure my kids wouldn't have thrown most of the stuff you mention away. They would not like fake mashed potatoes, packaged stuffing, any kind of jello and instant gravy. They might do the pumpkin bars. You know your DD and what she would think. Will she like this or prefer to make her own mashed potatoes and some homemade stuffing with a day old baguette? My DD probably would have preferred some high quality chocolate in Thanksgiving/fall shapes.

I think care packages are nice for "poor starving college students." I am not sure I would send one to any of my adult children. They are grown up now and independent. Is that why your DH does not think it is the best idea?

I also wonder if it will make your DD miss being home more. Could that be why he doesn't support it.

I assume your DD is making a decent living. Would sending her a gift card for a nice meal on Thanksgiving day be well received or looked upon as questioning her independence?
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