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Old 03-15-2014, 09:24 PM   #1
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I have been lurking for months due to working two jobs and trying to raise my two girls. I have also been dealing with my mom and helping my dad out. My Mom and Dad are my everything along with my girls. I have told my parents that they are immortal because I can't imagine living without my best friends. My Mom and I talked probably 10 times a day more if we could. She was the person I could always turn to, who would listen and not judge and understand.

Well, my mom has struggled with Rheumatoid Arthritis for 51 years and this past year it was really kicking into high gear. The end of January I had a bad feeling and the next day she was admitted with multiple blood clots. I was ready for her to go then and prepared. Well, she rebounded a bit and came home but then regressed and we had to put her in a nursing home. However, she again rebounded and was to be coming home last friday. But it wasn't meant to be

She contracted the virus that was going thru the nursing home and got very sick to the point where they were taking her back to the hospital. She recognized that and the paramedics said she took one last breath and smiled and that was it.

I was prepared in January but had fallen into the hope of her coming home and Dad and I weren't prepared for her to go so suddenly and not the day before her homecoming. Neither one of us were able to get to her before she left us and that has been the hardest part for me. I know she loved me, and I know she knew I loved her but I wasn't able to tell her again before she left. My connection with her has been broken and I am still waiting to feel her spirit again.

My mom never once complained about the life God gave her and the fact her body was slowly becoming nonfunctional. She was always positive, optimistic, and fought and enjoyed every day. I know she is in a far better place, happy, and running non-stop without pain. But I am selfishly missing her and having a very hard time. Any pixies to help would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Bless your heart! As we age, we are inevitably faced with losing those who have loved us, but it still isn't easy. I am sending lots of and prayers that you are able to find peace and rest.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Losing your mom is such a hard thing to go through. for you your Dad and your kids. I hope your many wonderful memories of her will give you comfort now and in the days and years to come.
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So sorry for you loss when you were looking forward to having your mom at home. My mother has been in a nursing home for two years and I just got a call yesterday that the norovirus is affecting some of the patients and they are not permitting any visitors for a while. Those viruses are so dangerous in these populations.
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I'm sorry. My step-grandmother was in a nursing home for rehab, and on the night before she was to go home, she died very suddenly. It's hard when you feel the person is doing very well and then they aren't.
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

I hope that you and your family will soon be able to experience some emotional healing.
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This has to be so tough! Be strong, and take care of yourself. I expect your sweet, sweet mother is watching over you and lending you strength. Let your dear daughters comfort you and help out.
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