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Old 11-28-2010, 12:24 PM   #16
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I knew from my teenage years that I would have a hard time getting pregnant due to endometriosis. We tried for 4 months before my doctor started me on Clomid. After several unsuccessful months on that, we tried injectibles and IUI. I got pregnant after two IUI cycles. That pregnancy ended at 25 weeks with a son who fought for just under 45 minutes before his little body couldn't handle anymore. At that point we started the adoption process because I knew we couldn't handle another heartbreak. Six months later I became pregnant. I had a very difficult pregnancy and spent a lot of time on bedrest, but I now have an amazing 7 year old daughter. I also have an amazing 6 year old daughter who came about just 13 months after her sister. Apparently it's true what that say in my case, stop thinking about it and it just happens.
As far as health issues from treatments...in 2006 I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer and had a hysterectomy. Later that year I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had a mastectomy in early 2007. I can't say for sure if this was due to the fertility drugs, but I also can't say that I would do it any different had I known what would happen. I was led down the path I was for a reason and I wouldn't go back and change anything if given the opportunity.
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Old 12-02-2010, 03:17 AM   #17
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I don't have children, but I lean more towards the adoption just because there are so many kids that need a family.

that being said, my parents were having trouble getting pregnant after they got married. After four years they began looking at adoption (my mom was coming up on 40, and back then any pregnancy over age 35 here in Alaska was considered too dangerous and you were basically told to abort as most doctors wouldn't touch you). They had papers signed and everything when my mom found out she was preggers with little ol' me.

They were trying to figure out if they would be able ot take the baby (it was a private adoption, the mom was going to give the baby up at birth) when they get a call that the mom had decided to keep him. "Problem" solved.

I was an only child until age 14 when our family became a foster family. My brother, Duane, was the first kid through our doors. He stayed with us for two years and then was placed back into his abusive home (our government for you), he returned to us 8 months later on the condition that his parents would lose custody and that we would adopt, my parents would not go through the heartbreak again.

Just shy of his tenth birthday he became a Reitter. He's almost 16, giving my parents grief like any teen boy would, and is happy and thriving.

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Old 12-02-2010, 03:48 PM   #18
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My DH and I didn't want children when we first married. We decided that if we
ever wanted to raise kids we would become foster parents (which we did) and
then if we wanted to we would adopt them. Well once a child was in our home our
minds were changed and we tried to get pregnant. I then found out I had PCOS
and would need help getting pregnant. After 2 rounds of IUI and clomid we got
pregnant. We decided to not use IVF (way to $$$$) and if it didn't work then we
would just foster to adopt. Well it worked and we have a beautiful DD.

However we would have no issue with adoption. My Dsis and I were both adopted
(from seperate families) after my parents had 3 boys and decided they wanted 2
girls. My Dbrother tried to have a child but also ended up adopting a little girl
who is now 15 yo. My DH and his brother were adopted by his now father once his
DM remarried. So as you can see adoption runs in our family and I have several
friends who also adopted kids.

It's a personal choice and one I'm happy my family made.
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