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Old 09-30-2010, 01:45 PM   #1
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I think that I'm selfish....

.....but, I need something positive to look forward to....So, I decided to plan a trip to WDW next fall. I talked with "the girls" (co-workers and friends, who have gone on previous trips to WDW with me)...and it's a go ahead.....I can't book my DVC home for another month or 2 depending when I decide to go (September or October, I think)...By that time, it will be over 2 years since I last "got-away".... even for just an overnight. DH is progressing more with the MS and I really don't know where he will be in a year....There is very little he can do for himself, now as it is. With all the added stress with his mom's stroke and her decisions about not prolonging her life...things are tough here at home and somedays it is difficult to "be happy" around him and act as if everything is getting better for her....So, lately I'm having a "feeling sorry for myself" mood and I do need something to "lift me up"...and of course, where else but WDW.....I'm already excited about it.....and God-willing, it will happen.....and, I know, if, for some reason I can't make the trip after it is booked....someone else will step in and go....actually, that will be around J & B's first anniversary, and I'm sure I wouldn't need to twist an arm and make them go...Although,...I'M DETERMINED.....I really, really need a disney fix.....and, at least I can read and plan.....and even order a new 2011 PASSPORTER.....and have some fun with it now...I'm usually not a self-centered person, and I do feel somewhat guilty about what I'm planning...but sometimes, I think you have "to take" in life once in awhile, instead "of give".....It is hard for me to do that, but, I feel that right now, at least ...... I need to do something for me....
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Old 09-30-2010, 01:48 PM   #2
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It sounds like you have a lot of peas and carrots on your plate and sometimes everyone needs that little something to look forward too. It makes you have the warm fuzzy feeling inside. I hope that you are able to go and have a great time planning and dreaming about the world.
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Planning is have the fun, so plan away... I always say my hubby, planning does not cost me anything or lock me into anything... not planning seems as though you are assuming things wont be good then, PLAN! BOOK! SCHEDULE! As though you know all will be well, or the same... you won't be much help if you are mentally and physically exausted... Your not selfish... just having a good outlook that far in advance... dont "they" tell you to be positive anyway? So be MAGICAL and we will all send you pixies until then!
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I don't think your wrong at all to be planning a trip. I hope you have fun doing it and it lifts your spirits. We just had a bad 2010 with my mom passing away and dd & I are planning a 2011 trip now too since we need some disney magic
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Sounds like a trip to WDW is what you need right now! Have fun planning!!
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Taking care of yourself is not selfish. You have a lot of responsibilities and will be much more effective if you get a break. I think it would be reasonable for you to try to get some respite once a month, if even for just an overnight.

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You don't sound at all selfish! Enjoy all the planning!
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You are not selfish...not at all! I think planning a WDW trip is exactly what you need right now!
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MaryLou, you soooo deserve this trip! Please don't feel selfish...happy planning!!!
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Everyone who is a primary caregiver of someone with a severe illness or injury needs a break! You HAVE to have some time to yourself, and to get away. You can't have nothing to look forward to and no respite or you'll start to resent your DH, and I know you don't want that.
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It sounds to me like that's just what you need. Have fun planning.
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You absolutely deserve that trip, enjoy every minute of planning! A happier you helps everyone else too so in fact, you need to do this
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It sounds to me like you definitely deserve this trip!! I hope the planning will help relieve some of your everyday stress.
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