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Old 08-07-2009, 08:10 AM   #1
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Funeral Troubles

As many of you know, my DGrandpa passed away earlier this week. He was 94, lived a full life and was well loved by all of us. You would think that his funeral would be a priority, but I'm sad to say for some of the family it's not!

My cousin has worked and lived in Mexico for many years now, she is getting married this coming Saturday. Her parents and another Uncle and Aunt are traveling down for the wedding. Now this I understand, a wedding is hard to postpone and the funeral would only have been delayed by about a week. However, one of my Uncles has plans to stop and visit friends before returning home and he wouldn't change those plans so he asked to put the funeral off until the 17th of the month. Well apparently that didn't work becuase some cousins had vacation plans that had been in the works for a year. The next I heard it was planned for the 31st and my DGpa would have to be cremated becasue they can't hold a body that long. Well I guess someone else couldn't make the 31st, so now it's planned for the second weekend in September!

I'm glad that it's a date where everyone can come, but it really makes me very mad and upset that all these people think their plans are more important than honoring their Father/Grandfather's memory. Not only that, but my DSF just had a heart valve replacement last week, so my poor DM is dealing with the stress of that on top of her DF dieing and all this drama!

Thanks for letting me vent, sometimes it's just feels good to let it all out!
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for your poor Mom and Step-Dad. I understand the wedding, hard to change all those arrangements. However, the others? I don't understand at all.

So sorry for your loss.
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I understand how you're feeling. Boy, do I understand!
My grandmother died late last month. My aunt was on a DRIVING vacation around New England, and couldn't "Make it" to a funeral planned that week (uh, hello, we're 10 hours away from you at this time - just turn the car to the west!). We finally had the funeral a week later, but aunt's daughter (who is 34 and fully capable, we think) couldn't come. Story was, her step-mother in TX is terminally ill and she needed to get down there. Well, she waited a week before heading down!! She couldn't even stop off here for a few hours to say goodbye to her grandmother.

Okay - sorry to kidnap your thread. Anyway, my point is: I understand fully. It's hard when others don't seem to appreciate the people we had and no longer have. Is it that hard to honor our elders?

Many, many pixies for you and your family. And a ton of extra ones for your mom.
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So sorry for your loss Lisa...and many pixies for your SF's recovery....
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I am so sorry for your loss and I am sorry your family members are less than appropriate in their "mourning." People never cease to amaze me in their selfishness these days. I can understand the wedding...but not the other plans. Family comes first.
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wedding understandable, other stuff - well I would have just shrugged and said 'ok, well, I know you'll be with us in spirit'... I just don't do postponements of these types of things
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