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Old 06-15-2009, 10:30 PM   #1
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Michael's recent post about Facebook and a personal incident prompts me to ask...

Have you ever been 'found' by someone on Facebook that you didn't want to have contact with?

I just received a note in my Inbox on FB from someone our family has not had any contact with in about 10 years - and I would rather they not have found us. (I checked my privacy settings and found they were less than private - bad me.) It's a small world, I know and easy to find just about anyone you want. I don't have to respond to this person (and don't plan to) but still...

Anyone else have this experience?
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I just ignore the friend request invitation. That way they can't see anything but your name and profile picture. Make sure your settings won't allow anyone except who you want to see your info and posts.
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Yes happened to me not long ago. An exboyfriend found me. To say the least I was shocked. Haven't seen or talked to him in 16 years. I just clucked ignore. He was my past and that is where I want him to stay.
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I check my settings every time Facebook makes a change now because I used to have everything set to Private, then Facebook changed to that new format and it changed my privacy settings on me. I didn't know about it until a friend of mine mentioned in her status that that had happened to her, so I checked mine and yeppers, it happened to me too. (FYI - it's just happened again with this new username change thing)

As far as people contacting me that I don't want to, yeah I've got a few family members in my friends' list that I really would prefer they don't get to see everything on my FB page. So there's a setting for that too. It's hard to find and takes some digging, but if you are determined and persistent it is there somewhere. I can't even remember where it is now to tell you how to find it. And there is one person who was stalking me that I have blocked every person on FB with her name, plus I changed my FB name to not use my last name so that she (and others) can't find me easily. Pretty much the only way to find me now is if I find you, I tell you my name, or if you know a friend of mine who recommends you to me (which is how I got those unwanted relatives).

ETA: Ok, I found it. It's called "Customise". Go to Privacy Settings. Then click on Profile. Then there's dropdown boxes for all the different info available on your profile. Click the appropriate dropdown box, and go to Customise. Then you just enter in the names of the friends you want to block from seeing that info.

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I had that happen recently, but I just ignored the friend request I got from that person.
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Cathy one of the very first things I did was place my settings on very strict-because a certain someone has still tried to contact me using a bogus name but I saw straight thru it.
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I just delete the friend request if I don't want contact with particular people.
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I've had a couple of people try to friend me that I didn't want to be friends with. I have no problem denying them. I only have people I really know and like on my list.
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After looking around at a couple of peoples pages, I finally figured out how to set my permissions. It was easier than I thought.

I wasn't even on FB and had two requests from people I know to see their sites. I couldn't view them unless I had an account. The person was our old neighbor who is getting ready to open a pizza place and she has been updating everyone on FB about the progress. So, instead of having to send me an email every time, she just directed me to her site.

I can see where people you don't want to be contacted by could find someone. I found a friend of mine from Middle School, who I had looked for in the past. I found him in LA, but I also found out some not so nice things about him from someone else. It may have been a good thing I didn't find him.

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I check my settings every time Facebook makes a change now because I used to have everything set to Private, then Facebook changed to that new format and it changed my privacy settings on me. I didn't know about it until a friend of mine mentioned in her status that that had happened to her, so I checked mine and yeppers, it happened to me too. (FYI - it's just happened again with this new username change thing)
Well - that explains it! I was fairly certain I had my privacy permissions set the way I wanted; guess FB decided otherwise. Thanks for the heads-up, Donna!
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Facebook Privacy Settings are your friends! I definitely learned that the hard way. I've never had my profile as public, but also didn't really set filters so certain friends couldn't see certain things on my page. My thought process was, "I'm not saying/doing anything inappropriate, so why does it matter?" Well, maybe I'm not, but some people can get a little too interested in your information, which is creepy.

A couple of neat things you can do - you can view your profile "as" someone on your friends list - so after changing your settings, you look at your profile and it will show it to you exactly as they would see it - that way you can double check to make sure nothing is showing you wouldn't want that person to see.

You can also create friend groups and set settings for that group as a whole - so, for example, "Work People" "Family" "My Mom's Friends Who Think They Are Cool," etc.

Also, I would highly recommend editing the Search options so that someone cannot find that you have a FB page under a common search engine like Google. Again, my profile wasn't public, but used to, someone could google my name and see I had a FB account, including my profile picture and a couple other things. Got some gross "friend-requests" from some random stangers, so I changed that setting REAL fast.
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I dont have my last name so no one can find me that way, also you cant search by my email either..
I have it where friends of friends can request me
and they cant see anything until i accept them
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Facebook Privacy Settings are your friends! I definitely learned that the hard way. I've never had my profile as public, but also didn't really set filters so certain friends couldn't see certain things on my page. My thought process was, "I'm not saying/doing anything inappropriate, so why does it matter?" Well, maybe I'm not, but some people can get a little too interested in your information, which is creepy.

A couple of neat things you can do - you can view your profile "as" someone on your friends list - so after changing your settings, you look at your profile and it will show it to you exactly as they would see it - that way you can double check to make sure nothing is showing you wouldn't want that person to see.

You can also create friend groups and set settings for that group as a whole - so, for example, "Work People" "Family" "My Mom's Friends Who Think They Are Cool," etc.

Also, I would highly recommend editing the Search options so that someone cannot find that you have a FB page under a common search engine like Google. Again, my profile wasn't public, but used to, someone could google my name and see I had a FB account, including my profile picture and a couple other things. Got some gross "friend-requests" from some random stangers, so I changed that setting REAL fast.
Oooh - good info, Scarlett! Thanks.
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