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Old 09-11-2008, 10:57 PM   #1
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Unhappy A sad day at our house

This afternoon Pat had to take Blue, our beloved Black Lab to the vet, and he had to be put to sleep.

His breathing had gotten worse in the past two months, after a diagnosis last year of trachial collapse. Upon x-raying him, they found a large tumor on his spleen, liver and now lungs.

He turned 10 in July, and has been showing signs of aging. He loved his Saturday ride in the pick up truck to get two hot dogs at the 7-11 with Pat.

I haven't told the girls yet, and I am not looking forward to that at all tomorrow afternoon. I didn't want them to go to school all upset.
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Old 09-11-2008, 11:04 PM   #2
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I'd tell them soon - they'll be angry that YOU decided when they could grieve.
I'm always amazed at how my kids handle death - they grieve, but they seem to cope better than I do.

Pixies for you all - and I'm sorry Blue passed. Sounds like he had a wonderful life, and loving family. I mean, DH says he loves me, but I don't get to go to 7-11 EVER!
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I'm so sorry....our pets are part of our family as well and I know how tough it is when something like that happens. In May, my horse had to be put down after birthing complications, I held off on telling my mom until the next day (she had an incredibly important meeting in the morning and I didn't want her to be a nervous wreck) - for us, waiting was the best answer. I think it's better to grieve when you have the time to grieve properly. Sometimes you don't have control over that decision, and sometimes you do. I would wait until tomorrow to inform you DD's as well - that way they can be upset and recoup a bit over the weekend. Labs are the most wonderful dogs....I've been wanting one for five years now.....they optimize the motto "man's best friend". Best of luck with everything.....

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I'm so sorry - I know how hard that is.
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His breathing had gotten worse in the past two months, after a diagnosis last year of trachial collapse.

My dad's chocolate lab, Jake, died from that... they had to put him down and my dad was devastated. so sorry for your loss
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My grand-daughter had a cat she loved and it died of T.B. when my grand-daughter was about 3. She draged the cat, pulled it's tail and a million other things a cat would not stand for. The cat was faithful to her and loved her. The cat knew that as soon as she (the cat) was thrown over her shoulder that the play time was over, until next time. The cat never moved, took all punishment and never scratched her.
Because the T.B. was to advanced we had to have the cat put asleep. Because of her age we only had to tell her that her cat had gone to cat heven.
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When our beagle came down with cascading health problems (clearing one thing up revealed another, etc), we decided to put him down. DH was out of town and I asked my sis to watch the kids while I took him to the vet. I wanted the kids to say goodbye, but didn't want them to freak out about the fact that I was taking him there to be put down. So, I lied and told them that he was very very sick (no lie). So sick that I wasn't sure if he would be coming back with me.

This way, they got to say goodbye, but still don't know (they're young) that there's actually a choice you can make to end your pet's life rather than it being natural causes.

I hope you are able to grieve and move on.
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Our pets are members of the family. It is sad when we have do to do this, but it is better than having them suffer...
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