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Old 06-06-2007, 04:47 AM   #16
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My next door neighbor babysits for us. She started when she was 12. She lives right next door, so close in fact that we can take our baby monitor over to the house and her grandparents can listen in while she is watching Devin. That way if there is a problem, all she has to do is speak up. Her mother will also come over and check on her. She is a very mature young lady and absolutely adores my children. She's 14 now but to speak with her, you'd think she was in her mid-20's. She fully understands the responsibility of watching children and takes it very seriously.
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I'd just like to add a quick word about "trolling for jobs". Lizzie has taken the babysitters course and is trying to get work with some of the kids in our neighborhood. After a year of trying, she is finally landing a family because her best friend (that currently babysits for this family) is moving. She has reintroduced herself to different families at the pool and let them know that she is available. Lots of them kind of know her, and know us as well, but didn't know that she sat. It's all about advertising your service. Would you be more likely to hire a babysitter that put a flyer in your mailbox, or actually came up and introduced herself to you so you could see for yourself? References are a great idea, but if a sitter is just starting out, family members might be the only practice she has. And siblings can sometimes be harder that non-family members. So don't be hard on a kid that's trying to get a job. I agree with those above that say try her out while you are at home. You might be pleasantly surprised.
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Old 06-06-2007, 08:49 PM   #18
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It's all about advertising your service. Would you be more likely to hire a babysitter that put a flyer in your mailbox, or actually came up and introduced herself to you so you could see for yourself? References are a great idea, but if a sitter is just starting out, family members might be the only practice she has. And siblings can sometimes be harder that non-family members. So don't be hard on a kid that's trying to get a job.
I guess that's part of it then....it's not so much her level of experience (she didn't offer any information and as the interaction continued, I didn't want to imply that we might be interested so I didn't ask) She didn't introduce herself....she knew my son and husband from the park, and came over and started dropping hints (literally) about sitting for us. Her manner did not make a very good impression as to the level of her maturity. She said hi to our son a few times, and he didn't reply back, which is strange for him. He's generally very friendly. Especially with girls/women. Then she dropped more hints. It's one of those "you would have had to be there" type interactions I guess. The whole situation made me a little uncomfortable. I only have one child, and we like having him around! It is up to my judgement to determine if a young lady passes the "i feel comfortable leaving my son with this person test"...she didn't...I don't think that's being harsh though, I'm just looking out for his well-being. I don't want her "practicing" her babysitting skills with my child! Trust me, I am not the super-overprotective type...every bruise and scrape is an achievement in my book!
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I think it depends on the maturity level of the teen who is babysitting. DD started out babysitting for the neighbors across the street when she was 13, and things worked out fine. I was almost always home in case something came up (such as the time they locked my DD out of the house or the time the toilet overflowed!) DD and one of her friends also job shared a babysitting job for a woman whom they met when they were out for a walk in DD's friend's neighborhood. The woman had a two year old child, and she actually approached the girls about having them babysit. DD babysat twice a week for almost three years for this woman, and she actually became good friends with this family. Even now when DD comes home from school on break, she visits this woman and her DD who is now six years old.

I think you have to go with your gut feeling and what feels right for you and your children. You should never not feel good about leaving your child with a sitter. If you don't feel right about it, then maybe that sitter is not the right one for you. I would always make sure that you have a cell phone with you so that your sitter can reach you. Most sitters will not call unless it is something important, but I would much rather have a sitter call me just to make sure that he/she is doing the right thing. There are no silly questions. If a sitter is calling, he/she is just being conscientious about the care of your child. Good luck!
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I started babysitting when I was 10 for my brother. Then about 12 or 13 I began babysitting for other kids, mostly kids that my brother was in scouts or YMCA sports with.

My DD just took a Red Cross babysitting course through GIrl Scouts and she has made plans to be a "mother's helper" for my cousin with a 6 month old baby. She is also looking forward to babysitting my brother's baby (due in December). Also to add to her training, she is also signed up to take a first aid and CPR course so she will be red Cross certified for babysitting, CPR, and first aid.
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my dd is just starting to babysit for other people and she is 14 & very mature for her age - I have just started this past year leaving her alone for short periods. Whenever I needed a babysitter, I would always use someone that was high school age.

I would definitely go with your gut feeling, maybe she just doesn't click with your family.

But if you felt like you had to, you could always try the mother's helper idea, but don't feel pressured.

She sounds like she will find babysitting jobs eventually, the way she is asking around.

that's just my 2 cents... you're the mom, so you have a right to be fussy!
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