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Old 01-01-2002, 02:38 PM   #1
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To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

DH wants to move out of the town we live in now. It is where I was raised. He would like to move to Chesire, CT so his commute would not include 95 and the Q bridge. Houses are very expensive there.

He found an affordable house, and made an offer on it, with the intentions of fixing it up and then selling it for a profit. However, we would have to pay capital gains tax if we did that.

Now my dilemma, We have been thinking about making the move and living in the house. I have never lived more than 5 minutes from my sister and mom. I would have to give up my part time night job and the little girl I watch during the day. I told DH that if we move it will not be until after DD is out of school for the summer, I won't make her move mid stream. DS starts kindergarten in Sept so that is not a problem.

I have been having such a hard time making this decision, I have even been dreaming about it at night. I know that you guys will say a prayer and send some pixie dust to help make this decision a little easier.
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Old 01-01-2002, 04:04 PM   #2
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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

I vote for moving after the school year. I had a vote, right? [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

In our 21+ years of marriage, we have moved 11 times. Altough we have been in our present house for 10 years now.

My family is in New Hampster, Vermont & Florida although I grew up in Central Massachsetts. I have no family left in Mass. Now my wifes family is a close bunch that constant interfered with us. That lasted a year before we moved to NH to get away. I have no close feelings about where we live now. In fact my wife and I look forward to moving south when the kids get in college. Which means 10 more years here. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif[/img]
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Old 01-01-2002, 04:20 PM   #3
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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

If you roll over the profit into a new residence you wouldn't have to to pay capital gains on the fixer upper - right?
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Old 01-01-2002, 05:05 PM   #4
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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

I think you should move a little further north, like about 20 minutes more. Then you can live in Middlefield like me. [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]

Seriously though. I thought to pay capitol gains that you had to live in a house for less than 2 yrs and sell it for (can't remember exactly how much) more than you paid for it.

No matter what you decide I'm sending lots of positive thoughts and pixie dust your way.

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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

I also think you should move somewhere in between. I lived in VA while my husband was in the military, I missed my mom sooo much! I didn't realize how much she meant to me until I moved away. I would fly up at least every other month. Did your husband ask you if it was okay to put this bid on this house? If it goes through I guess you are stuck, but if it doesn't then maybe you should ask for a compromise half way between his job and your family is fair.
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Good luck and best wishes with whatever you and DH choose to do. [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] Tough decision.
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Old 01-01-2002, 07:24 PM   #7
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Wow, what a tough decision. What ever you decide, it will turn out for the best. Since you have small children, how is the school system in Cheshire? Good Luck.

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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

Hello to another CT person!! [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img] Cheshire is a nice town to live in, close to the main cities but also quiet! I know where you are coming from on this whole topic. I kept my daughter in her old school and commuted her back and forth from Jan to June...not fun. I know that youre not thrilled of making this move, but in the long run will it benefit the whole family? I guess that the most important thing is to talk to your
DH about this and let him know how you feel. Might also want to talk to your mom and sis and see what they think about it too! Im sure that it is only like 1 hour from Cheshire right? Hope all goes well with this.

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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

Having seen a horrendous accident on the Q bridge on last week I would have to say move. 95 is sooooo dangerous. Cheshire is beautiful and did have a good school system. (I don't know about it currently but my cousins grew up in it.) Plus, it's close to a lot of things like Kadterp said and really not that far from where you are currently!

It's a tough decision. Good Luck!
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Good luck and my best wishes are with you [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img] I'm sure the decision you took is the good one.
It's a tough decision,I think of you

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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

Thanks guys, you're the best.! I think I have decided to go for the move, it will be better in the long run.

DH and I talked about the house before we decided to buy it. We were just going to fix it up and sell it, we had no intention of moving until we found out about the tax thing [img]images/icons/shocked.gif[/img]

If we roll the money we make on this house into the new one we don't have to pay the tax.

Chesire has a great school system, from what I've heard. I'm going to call and see if we can tour the schools
And it's only 20 minutes from mom and sis. That 20 minutes just seems like 200.

We probaly wouldn't move until June anyway, the old owners passed away and their daughters, who are selling the house, live in Pittsburgh. They have to get the house cleaned out first, then deal with all that lawyer stuff

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Thanks again for all the pixie dust and prayers! I'll let you know how everything is going!
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Re: To move or not to move, that is my dilemma..

Kristen, 20 min drive from your mom & sis isn't bad, especially if it makes things easier on DH (Lord knows we have to make the guys happy [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img]).

Sometimes change is good. I do agree with holding out on the move until summer vacation starts as I know personally how hard it is to change schools. 5th grade I was in 3 schools...no I wasn't a bad kid [img]images/icons/grin.gif[/img] My dad was in the military and we made several moves.

Prayers and Pixie Dust to you and your family in making this decision. [img]images/icons/smile.gif[/img]
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