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Old 02-07-2007, 11:18 PM   #1
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Unhappy I feel so bad! DS was very naughty and...

...I had to punish him! He colored all over my brand new entertainment center. It's mostly on the inside and I did get it all off with a Magic Eraser, but some of the wood stain came off, too. So now there are lighter spots where he colored.

I sent him to his room to lay down and think about how sad his behavior made me. And he lost some privileges: no Disney Channel or Nickelodeon tomorrow and no crayons or markers for the rest of the week.

He IS 4 now, so I don't think that's overly harsh, but I feel so bad about having to punish him. I really feel like the worst Mommy ever now.
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Old 02-07-2007, 11:41 PM   #2
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Don't see it as punishment. See it as "Good Citizen in Training". Seriously, we all have to teach our kids that they pay consequences for their mistakes. Some of them hurt more than others. My daughter was a lot like your son. She just really was so good and it about killed me to discipline her when she did do wrong. Now she's a GREAT NON-REBELLIOUS teenager (still a teen though...LOL). She loves people and respects others and her authority.

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I don't think your a mean mommy, I think you handled that situation just right. I think the punishment fit the situation perfectly too. Good job!!
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You're not a bad Mommy - you're a great Mommy! Our kids never know how hard it is on us when we punish them, until they have kids of their own. You're helping him to grow up into a fine young man. It sounds to me like the punishment fit the "crime". Try not to be so hard on yourself.
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I am very impressed with your "punishment." It's not every mom who's willing to actually hold their little ones responsible... even at 4. Your solution was perfect!
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Sorry you feel bad. If there is a next time, try the Goo Gone Gel on wood - it doesn't seem to take the stain off. Been there done that with the magic eraser.
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I am very impressed with your "punishment." It's not every mom who's willing to actually hold their little ones responsible... even at 4. Your solution was perfect!

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Old 02-08-2007, 06:47 AM   #8
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Sounds like an appropriate punshment to me. The kids I see in the court system are the ones whose parents didn't take the time and effort to discipline them when they were four.

My kids also did a little "wall art". I think they all do but can quickly learn that walls and furniture are not for drawing on.

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Another vote for a Good Mommy job! It's not too early for him to start learning responsibility for his actions.
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Seems about right to me! DS must be a very good boy if you feel that badly about punishing him. I feel like Ryan is in time out (or his toys are) on a daily basis!
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No, no, no, no, a thousand times no! You are doing exactly what you need to ensure he learns proper behavior. I can't tell you the number of times when working retail that little terrors who run the parents come in and make a disaster of the store.

We are just as firm with our little guy and he is turning out great! Well, maybe not great... haha!
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I think you were absolutely dead on with your punishment! He is old enough to be held accountable but at the same time you didn't overreact. I think you gave him the perfect punishment to fit the crime. Don't even start to question yourself!
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Aww, Chrissi, you did a good job! I know exactly how you feel, though. The worst is when they lay there crying b/c they know they disappointed you. But they NEED to get that. It will make them a better person, for sure.

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