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Old 06-17-2006, 07:45 PM   #1
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5 year olds . . . they\'re swayed so easily . . .

So, we're dealing with Emilie's first BIG wrongdoing. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

She has 2 little friends that live in our apartment complex . . a little girl, "H", who is also 5, and a little boy "N", who is 4 (almost 5). "N" is outside from the time he gets up in the morning until the time he goes to bed . . . and is unsupervised the ENTIRE time. "H" goes outside by herself quite a bit, but her mother comes outside to check on her every so often. We are outside supervising the entire time Emilie is outside.

So, yesterday, Emilie was outside playing with "N" . . . they were playing in a, sort of, "ditch" in the field behind our building. The kids have all been told to stay away from the (VERY deep) storm drain in the ditch, so they play on the other side of the ditch.

"H" came outside for a bit and started playing with Emilie and "N" . . . and she tends to take her shoes off and walk around barefoot when her mom isn't looking. The kids weren't fighting and were pretty quiet, so nothing to worry about, right?

Mike was outside doing his homework (for his Civil War history course he's taking) and saw the kids were playing and didn't think anything of it . . . I was in the house working on the computer. Emilie comes running to Mike a few seconds later yelling "Daddy, hide me from 'H'!" When he asked why, she says "Because I threw her shoes down in the drain!" [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

"YOU WHAT?!" [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

Evidently, "H" took her shoes off and wandered off to do something, "N" grabbed "H"'s shoes from where she had left them, handed them to Emilie and says "Put her shoes in there." and points to the storm drain. Of course, "N" is her "best friend" [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] so, she did as he told her to . . . and tossed her shoes own the drain then told "H" they were there. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

"H" went home crying and her mom came out and talked to "N" . . . then came down and talked to Mike and Emilie about it. Mike offered to reimburse her on the spot for the shoes and she refused the money, saying that it wasn't Emilie's fault AT ALL, but "N"'s fault! Evidently, they have had TONS of problems with "N" and his family since they moved in upstairs from "N" . . . the kid is out unsupervised constantly and the parents don't care. The father is a jerk, too. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

The other day, the sky ripped open and it started POURING down rain and there was lightning all around us while we were outside (as were Emilie and "N") . . . not only did we have to put Emilie's toys away that were strewn all over the place AND get her inside before she was soaked, but we had to help "N" get home . . . all the while, his father was standing on their back porch just watching us run around getting soaked. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img] He didn't even make one IOTA of an effort to come and get his own child out of the rain and lightning. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

UGH. So, Emilie has been grounded for a couple of days . . . and we told her that she is NOT to play with "N" anymore. ("H"'s mother has also said that "H" is no longer allowed to play with "N" but that Emilie is MORE than welcome to play with "H" anytime.)

We're hoping she has learned her lesson. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

But I have now, officially, had my first "What do we DO?!" moment with my child . . . is that considered a rite of passge? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif[/img]
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Re: 5 year olds . . . they\'re swayed so easily . . .

Aren't they a joy? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img]

Welcome to the "What am I gonna do with her/him" club! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
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Re: 5 year olds . . . they\'re swayed so easily . . .

LOL - I think Sarah was five when she got her first school writeup - on the bus, no less!

She came in crying, and said that the bus driver had yelled at her - and she had to sit in the front seat tomorrow, not near the window. When I asked what happened - she said "I just stood up and licked the window!" EEEWWWWWW!!!! When I asked her why, she said that "K", an older boy (8!!) told her to.

Yep - they will do almost anything you ask them - good or bad!!! Gotta love a "fiver"!!!!
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Poor Emilie [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] Alexa made it until today......see my other post [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
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Uh oh. I'll bet that Emilie feels really bad about it right now. She'll probably think twice before she goes ahead and listens to a brat again!
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They do a lot of learning at this age. I'm sure another 5 year old Emily I know will find herself in a similar predicament sometime soon.

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So sorry to hear that Em has had her first "challenging" moment.
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Oh, no. That "N" sounds like a bad situation. I'm sure Emilie learned her lesson.
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I'm sure Emilie feels bad & has learned her lesson. It's never a dull moment with kids. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img]
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It only gets better... [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rofl2.gif[/img]
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Ahh, the joys of parenting [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]
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Re: 5 year olds . . . they\'re swayed so easily . . .

they all go through things like this, not a big deal, sounds like you handled it well.

It bothers me that "N" is out and unsupervised for this long of a period. Has anyone called child services? We used to live in a place where it was not unusuall for kids to be out for hours, on their own. I called the cops, and they started making sure that the parents in the neighborhood knew this was not acceptable.
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Being a parent sounds difficult, I'm sure Emilie's learned her lesson.

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Hey, at least you made it to 5! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] Welcome to the the neverending 'What do I do?' era!
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