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As of January 1, 2019, we have closed our forums. This is a decision we did not come to lightly, but it is necessary. The software our forums run on is just too out-of-date and it poses a significant security risk. The server software itself must be updated, and it cannot be without removing the forums.
So it is with a heavy heart that we say goodbye to our long-running forums. They came online in 2000 and brought together so many wonderful Disney fans. We had friendships form, careers launch, couples marry, children born ... all because of this amazing community.
Thank you to each of you who were a part of this community. You made it possible.
And a very special thank you to our Guides (moderators), past and present, who kept our forums a happy place to be. You are the glue that held everything together, and we are forever grateful to you. Thank you aliceinwdw, Caldercup, MrsM, WillCAD, Fortissimo, GingerJ, HiddenMickey, CRCrazy, Eeyoresmom, disneyknut, disneydani, Cam22, chezp, WDWfan, Luvsun, KMB733, rescuesk, OhToodles!, Colexis Mom, lfredsbo, HiddenMickey, DrDolphin, DopeyGirl, duck addict, Disneybine, PixieMichele, Sandra Bostwick, Eeyore Tattoo, DyanKJ130, Suzy Q'Disney, LilMarcieMouse, AllisonG, Belle*, Chrissi, Brant, DawnDenise, Crystalloubear, Disneymom9092, FanOfMickey, Goofy4Goofy, GoofyMom, Home4us123, iamgrumpy, ilovedisney247, Jennifer2003, Jenny Pooh, KrisLuvsDisney, Ladyt, Laughaholic88, LauraBelle Hime, Lilianna, LizardCop, Loobyoxlip, lukeandbrooksmom, marisag, michnash, MickeyMAC, OffKilter_Lynn, PamelaK, Poor_Eeyore, ripkensnana, RobDVC, SHEANA1226, Shell of the South, snoozin, Statelady01, Tara O'Hara, tigger22, Tink and Co., Tinkerbelz, WDWJAMBA, wdwlovers, Wendyismyname, whoSEZ, WildforWD, and WvuGrrrl. You made the magic.
We want to personally thank Sara Varney, who coordinated our community for many years (among so many other things she did for us), and Cheryl Pendry, our Message Board Manager who helped train our Guides, and Ginger Jabour, who helped us with the PassPorter-specific forums and Live! Guides. Thank you for your time, energy, and enthusiasm. You made it all happen.
There are other changes as well.
Why? Well, the world has changed. And change with it, we must. The lyrics to "We Go On" for IllumiNations say it best:
We go on to the joy and through the tears
We go on to discover new frontiers
Moving on with the current of the years.
We go on
Moving forward now as one
Moving on with a spirit born to run
Ever on with each rising sun.
To a new day, we go on.
It's time to move on and move forward.
PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.
But eventually, we must move on and move forward. It is the right thing to do.
So we are retiring this newsletter, as we simply cannot keep up with it. Many thanks to Mouse Fan Travel who supported it all these years, to All Ears and MousePlanet who helped us with news, to our many article contributors, and -- most importantly -- to Sara Varney who edited our newsletter so wonderfully for years and years.
And we are no longer charging for the Live Guides. If you have a subscription, it's yours to keep for the lifetime of the Live Guides at no additional cost. The Live Guides will stay online, barring server issues and technical problems, for all of 2019.
That said, PassPorter is not going away. Most of the resources will remain online for as long as we can support them, and after that we will find ways to make whatever we can available. PassPorter means a great deal to us, and to many of you, and we will do our best to keep it alive in whatever way we can. Our server costs are high, and they'll need to come out of our pockets, so in the future you can expect some changes so we can bring those costs down.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your amazing support over the years. Without you, there's no way us little guys could have made something like this happen and given the "big guys" a run for their money. PassPorter was consistently the #3 guidebook after the Unofficial and Official guides, which was really unheard of for such a small company to do. We ROCKED it thanks to you and your support and love!
If you miss us, you can still find some of us online. Sara started a new blog at DisneyParkPrincess.com -- I strongly urge you to visit and get on her mailing list. She IS the Disney park princess and knows Disney backward and forward. And I am blogging as well at JenniferMaker.com, which is a little craft blog I started a couple of years ago to make ends meet. You can see and hear me in my craft show at https://www.youtube.com/c/jennifermaker . Many PassPorter readers and fans are on Facebook, in groups they formed like the PassPorter Trip Reports and PassPorter Crafting Challenge (if you join, just let them know you read about it in the newsletter). And some of our most devoted community members started a forum of their own at Pixie Dust Lane and all are invited over.
So we encourage you to stay in touch with us and your fellow community members wherever works best for you!
Best wishes for a wonderful and magical new year!
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11-12-2005, 08:44 PM
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Community Rank: Explorer 
Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Near a Tower of Terror at the moment...
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Nursing homes, longish
Sarah had her first Social Skills Class today and it meets at a nursing home. It's more of a residential care place and not quite the hospital atmosphere, but I had a wee bit of a panic attack before I got out of the building.
When I was 12 and newly returned to the States from having lived in Germany for 7.5 years, my grandparents took me to a "class reunion" that their town's school did every year. While we were there, we visited an old friend who had had a stroke in the nursing home. He so desperately wanted to go with us when we left, he was crying, and he grabbed my arm. I will never forget the look of despondency in his eyes.
Then, when I moved here, DH's GMA was in the nursing home just down the street (we bought her house to pay her way), and my MIL would have me walk down and visit a few days a week. She, too, had a stroke and couldn't communicate. She always thought I was a nurse and would try to get me to change her bed pads and such. I just freak out a little (like an asthma attack) and then feel so HORRIBLE for not being able to do anything about it.
Anyway, so I was overwhelmed with those same feelings today. She only goes once a month, but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of something I could do that won't make me go into panic mode, but help someone else and maybe get me over it at the same time. DDs both have issues, so getting them to even say hello to any of the residents is nigh on impossible. I thought maybe I could have them color some pictures that we could just "deliver" to some of the residents who don't have family or visitors, maybe.
Anyone else have any ideas? I just wanted to cry when I left there today...I don't want to get old and lost. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/cry.gif[/img]
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11-12-2005, 08:48 PM
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Community Rank: Legend 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Dreaming of the Future
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Re: Nursing homes, longish
I really don't know what to say I have a hard time with hospitals and nursing homes as well thats why going to nursing school was a short lived idea. I just wanted to send you some
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11-12-2005, 08:58 PM
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Community Rank: Explorer
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Longfellow's "Jewel by the Sea"
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Re: Nursing homes, longish
I kinda get the same way, I fear that the old and ill want something from me that I can't give. I break it up into small visits. Show up with a smile, prop up a pillow, make a cup of tea/coffee, tell them I'll see them soon, and then leave. And then show up as soon as possible, do the same, and so on. Only going once a month might make you and DD stress about what to do and dread the next visit, but just doing short, small, frequent ones works pretty well (I think.) They have something to look forward to, and you only have to give 10 minutes plus travel time. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/luck.gif[/img]
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11-12-2005, 09:10 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2003
Location: Jacksonville, FL
Concierge Level: 6
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Re: Nursing homes, longish
I hated having to visit my grandmother in the nursing home after her surgery had adverse effects and she had to move there permanently. I felt like I should be doing things to make her better and I could not. I would try to relax, do some deep breathing and not stress about it - cause if you stress - the girls will pick up on it and dread visiting there as much as you do.
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