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Old 02-02-2006, 09:57 AM   #1
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A day in the life of a stay-at-home-working mother

Awaken to the sound of a screaming child throwing a fit because his father dared to take bottle of moisturizer away from child, attempt to wake up enough to make it down stairs, make breakfast for child who insists he wants everything but what you have, while child eats attempt to straighten up your house in the 2.5 seconds between handing child breakfast and his yelling, “All done!” at the top of his lungs. Convince child that he needs to eat something besides syrup and provide yogurt. Remember that the dog is STILL outside, go to get dog who runs inside and is immediately rewarded by child with the remains of a blueberry waffle. Try to clean blueberry waffle mess while child gleefully flings yogurt onto his tray and proceeds to mix it with syrup already in tray while chanting “signing time, signing time” because the last song of the DVD he is watching has just begun to play. Answer phone while attempting to hold off dog, undo tray and keep child from grabbing your hair with sticky yogurt/syrup fingers. Clean off child, tray, high chair and dog and go back to straightening. Place child in time out twice for not listening and attempting to “help” you load the dishwasher. Periodic stops for Kleenex use on child with seriously runny nose.


Put dog away, bring child upstairs to get dressed an attempt to take shower. Change child’s hideously stinky diaper while child re-enacts a scene from one of Hulk Hogan’s last matches. Bring child and appropriate toys into bathroom. Turn on water, brush teeth, help child attempt to brush his teeth after bribing him with new “special” toothpaste. Get in shower and attempt to wash hair while the curtain is pulled back multiple times to play “peek-a-boo”, each time letting in a blast of cold air. Put conditioner in hair and begin to relax. Realize that you are relaxing because it is quiet. Get VERY nervous because it is quiet! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/ukid.gif[/img] Check on child who is slathering previously mentioned moisturizer all over himself. Forget to wash face because you are helping child rinse off excess moisturizer. Inform child that he has now lost “Blues Clues” privileges for the day. Tantrum begins. Ignore tantrum, return to shower, contemplate shaving, burst into hysterical laughter. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif[/img]

Dress self and child while child is hanging onto you for dear life as he now needs comfort at the thought of a Blues Clues free day. More Kleenex as his nose is now a veritable faucet. As child begins to count his toes realize that your 21 month old can count to 6 but has never said his ABC’s. Panic and begin singing ABC’s while also attempting to sign them as well as you are teaching child sign language. Mentally begin to re-think your entire approach to child-rearing and education as you are clearly so negligent a mother that your child is addicted to Blues Clues and does not know his ABC’s. After all, he IS already 21 months old! Remember that you have work to do today and begin to pray that child will take a nap longer than the previous day's which last about 60 whole minutes, just long enough to walk the dog and shove some lunch in your mouth.

Place child with snack and water infrom of Seasame Street and come upstairs to vent to your friends. Attempt to finish typing post with child on your lap because he has found you and wants more Elmo.



It’s now 9:47 am – how is your day?? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/dizzy.gif[/img]
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Sara, that was hilarious!!! Ryan's so sweet in all his pictures...he can't POSSIBLY be capable of throwing a tantrum! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rofl2.gif[/img]

Hope the rest of your day gets easier, and is moisturizer free! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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I'm not a stay at home mom but I am a mom of a 2 year old and can totally relate to your day... my guy can count to 10 in spanish (thanks to Dora) but stops around 7 in English... go figure! Here's a few pixies for a long nap!!!
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Ahhhh.... I remember those days! You wouldn't want it any other way, would you? Being a Mom is the best job ever.

Umm, about those ABC's, he knows them, he's just not telling you!
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Just think, it's one day closer to the time he will go to school, and once he starts school, you'll miss all of these things that he does. But you'll also be really, REALLY, thankful that he's in school. I've been a stay at home mom to my DD and now that she's in school, I work as a substitute for the school, but I still miss her. Every so often, I have a lapse in sanity and kinda wish for the days when she was home, and then I return to my right mind and say "Thank god I don't have to go through that again." Believe me, you will make it through this. Maybe only a few minutes at a time, but you'll make it. I did - and my DD is Autistic on top of it all which we only just found out a few months ago. Good luck.
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Sara, how I long to go back to those days. Although I love the work that I do at times I feel like I'm working with 8 people who are not as mature as Ryan is now!!! So much so that the dept head has called a meeting of us all for the purpose of doing a major reorganization! December 1, 2007 can't come soon enough for me. That's the day I can retire.
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Oh Sara.. I'm so sorry but I had to laugh..having met Ryan ( & seeing that adorable bundle of energy) I am picturing the scene in my mind ..

I think the funniest part is the moisturizer.. Heck, even little boys need smooth, soft skin, Mom!! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

I remember those days all too well...but just think

IT ONLY GETS WORSE!!!! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

soon enough he'll be a teenager who is at least 6" taller than you & rolls his eyes at every thing that comes out of your mouth & say "Mom, this isn't the 80's" or cry & stomp around because you asked him to give the poor parrot water & he's overly tired ( & HORMONAL!!! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img])

Ain't parenting fun??? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] gotta love em !!
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OMG!!! Where did you hide the camera in my house?? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]
I SWEAR you could have been describing one of my days last year!!

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i so identify with you!
Take a shower? with no blasts of cold air? [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/eek.gif[/img]
i remember trying to take a shower with 2 of them in the room! i bought a see-thru shower curtain. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/roflmao.gif[/img]
Most days i wouldn't trade it for any job. Now that my boys are a little older things r different/not easier/ different. but i'm about to do it all over again!
Enjoy your little guy. he's adorable and even though he doesn't realize it he is so lucky you are there with him every day. You're a good mom. probably a tired mom but a good mom. You're also very lucky to have the option to stay home.
Have a good rest of the day [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]
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As I was reading it I thought you were describing my life! Except times two. Although now, I am sad as my oldest is in school and I miss all of that fun [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

Parenting really is the best job around!
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