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Old 05-07-2005, 10:27 PM   #1
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What would you guys do......?

Up until a few years ago I had never been close to my sisters-in-law except for one. We started going on these short cruises and I felt we had really bonded. Here's the problem-my DH use to married before,his sister married his wife at the time brother. His sister and ex-wife have remained best friends through the years,which doesn't bother me as our path rarly crosses except for the occasional b-day party. about 2 yrs. ago my SIL moved to another state and we don't see her except for major holidays. Fast forward-a new cruise came up and my SIL wants to go with me,SIL#2,Neice and DH's ex. I said no,everyone else said yes,so they are going. A few months before I explained to my SIL"S how a felt about the old wife ,don't hate her-don't need to see her. SIL#2 is celebrating a b-day a few days before the cruise and everyone(including ex)is invited. My DH and I don't want to go because we feel since the other has moved away we have no reason to see the ex-much less at the 2nd sisters party(days before (my) their cruise. keep in mind they all know my feelings are hurt,for inviting her on the cruise I would normally be on and just for not considering their brothers feelings regarding his ex(it was not a easy relationship).
Would you go to the party or just bail. SIL#2 does like to stir the pot a bit and will joke about us not being there but will act like she is insulted if we don't come. DH brother feels we should go but......
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Oh that's tough but personally I wouldn't go. If it was me I would feel like they are trying to rub the relationship with the ex in my face. I hate when people act that way and keep us posted
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Personally, I don't think I could go. I would just be uncomfortable...and it's a party, you're supposed to have fun.
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Yolanda, if you go, you are a far bigger person than I! and tons of and to you!
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I know I would not be comfortable in that situation and not able to enjoy myself. I wouldn't go.
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I know I would not be comfortable and therefore not have a good time. I don't think it's worth it to put both of you through that.
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I wouldn't go if I were you, I think it would make you feel uncomfortable .

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I wouldn't go either. Why put yourself in an uncomfortable situation if you don't have to. Your family should be understanding about it.
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I wouldn't go either Yolanda
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Thanks guys..that's what I thought too. It makes me sick to my stomach whenever I think about it..BUT, I'm going to Disney in 4 days and THEY'RE not!!! HA-ha
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