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Old 07-17-2015, 05:14 PM   #1
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Goodbye, Larry

Today was a difficult day. We had to put down our 13 year old Bassett Hound, Larry. He considered himself my DD's dog, but he stayed with us when she went to college. We all knew it was coming, he was almost blind, arthritic, and just about incontinent, but putting him down was REALLY difficult for our other dog. Poor Rico just sat and howled for about 10 minutes when we came back with just a collar.

Does anyone have any ideas about how to comfort a grieving dog? We feel bad enough that Larry's gone, but we don't know how to comfort poor Rico.
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My condolences for Larry. It is always so difficult when we lose a furry family member. Just remember that you gave him love as well as the peace & comfort he deserved even in the end.

With regards to Rico - Other than the obvious - extra attention, you could of course adopt another playmate for Rico. Adopting an age appropriate playmate from a local shelter would not only help Rico but uou would be saving another life as well. However if that is not an option maybe some time at a doggy day care for play dates or time at a puppy park. If Rico does not improve then consult your vet. After a certain time period they may want to consider an antidepressant for Rico. We actually had to go down this route for our dachshund when my gram passed.
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So sorry to hear that you had to put your dog down. I know how hard it is and you miss them soooo much. I would make sure you give Rico lots and lots of attention and love. We had to put our Boston Terrier Piper down a couple of month ago and our other dog Buddy was very sad. Everytime we came in the house he would look for Piper. Eventually he remembered less and less and he's fine now.
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I'm so sorry about your furry family member. Poor Rico doesn't understand. Give lots of extra love. Is there a blanket or favorite toy of Larry's that Rico could have in his bed? Hugs for your family and especially Rico.
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Am so sorry it is hard to say goodbye to our fur babies. All I know is they feel the lose and they pick up on our sadness as well...So love him and grieve with him...just remember dogs live in the now and am sure he will be fine if you are fine. I say this because I have lived through this as well.
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Oh, I am so sorry!! We have an 8yr old Bassett, and she's definitely beginning to act her age.

And poor Rico! That's tough. I agree with giving him something that was Larry's, like a blanket, toy, etc. That, and lots of extra love.
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So, so sorry for your loss and for worrying about poor Rico. I hope you can comfort each other as the days go by.
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So sorry for the loss to you and your family (and Rico) We have had two dogs for many years now because once one is used to having a buddy, it is hard for them to adjust to being an only dog.

Dogs do get depressed and miss their companions. I also think our dogs got loney becuase they are alone much of the day (5 or 6 hours many days) OUr solution has been to get another dog relatively quickly.
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I'm so sorry. Seems as if I've heard about Larry for so long, I know him!

As for Rico - our dogs have always mourned when one of them dies. We comfort the dog left, and keep it active/engaged. We've actually never gotten another dog when one of them died.
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I'm so sorry. Seems as if I've heard about Larry for so long, I know him!

As for Rico - our dogs have always mourned when one of them dies. We comfort the dog left, and keep it active/engaged. We've actually never gotten another dog when one of them died.
Thanks, I really needed to hear that. I was hoping that we could stick with just one dog at a time. Of course, DD is pushing for getting another, but I'm hoping she will be working soon and moving out of the house.

Poor Rico cried all last night until DD couldn't take it and took him into bed with her. He wouldn't eat his breakfast and has been very clingy. I'll give it a few more days and see if he improves. I can just see it now: we'll be heading to a doggy shrink and spending hundreds of dollars for doggy anti-depressants. That's just how my life goes...
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I can just see it now: we'll be heading to a doggy shrink and spending hundreds of dollars for doggy anti-depressants. That's just how my life goes...
FYI: the pills were not that expensive & snick was only on them for a couple weeks then weaned off. Still evident that he missed her but was eating again & more engaged. So basically it's a short term thing. When it happened with us our vet said to call if in 10 days he wasn't back to normal.
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