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Old 09-04-2014, 12:06 AM   #1
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Question about tweens

So I read in the DCL Passporter that tweens (11-14) can check themselves in and out of kid club programs at will. Does this mean they more or less have the run of the ship? I have to be honest, this makes me a little bit uneasy. I have a very responsible 11-year-old that I trust, but is roaming the ship unaccompanied safe? I'd love to hear from other parents with kids that age, especially those who have cruised. What are your experiences? I'm interested in hearing different points of view on this subject too, and also advice and tips for kids this age.

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My daughter was 13 on our cruise in March. She had an older brother in the Vibe. Because of thet, we were given the option of having her go to both clubs. We chose to do that, and she hardly ever left Vibe.

Anyway, she was able to come and go from the clubs at will. It worked out great though! We would tell her that we need her to bet at the room at a certain time for dinner or a show, and she was ALWAYS there on time. She did great! There are maps all over to make it hard to get lost.

I never saw any kids out and about causing trouble, it was just an amazing trip! The kids that age get a fair amount of freedom with tons of supervised activities mixed in..... perfect for that age.

It sounds scarey, but once you get onboard you will probably feel much better.
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We sailed on the Fantasy in July and our son is 11 1/2. He loved the Edge and yes, did have the run of the ship. Having said that, it was his 6th cruise and on number 5 we gave him check in/check out privileges from the kids club so he has worked his way up so to speak. He wears a waterproof watch and his lanyard to hold his Key to the World club which is needed to get into Edge along with getting himself into the stateroom. He was responsible about returning or meeting us at certain times of days.
When we were together as family and bumped into other kids, they referred to him by his Edge nickname--which to this day we have no idea how he got. We also heard stories about goings on from other parents--nothing dangerous, just fun and funny. And, the last night of the cruise, he returned to the room with a special button and magic moment certificate pronouncing him Edge clown. Again--we have not yet heard all of that story.
As I've heard other cruisers say, you get a glimpse of your child as older/more mature while sailing--I don't know why, but it's true.
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We've cruised twice, once when DS was 10 and again when he was 12. He is very responsible and we felt comfortable and safe letting him explore the ship on his own. Just be sure your child knows your expectations. We asked that he carry one of the wave phones with him most of the time so we could contact him when needed.
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I will be traveling on our first DCL cruise next fall with our tween son. I plan to make sure he is well aware of our expectations at the get go: call us on the wave phone if you are leaving where ever you told us you would be (Edge, pool, arcade, stateroom) or if you decide not to join us at the prearranged time (like for a show or movie).

I will also make sure he understands the we expect him to act appropriately in the common areas.
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We let our kids have sign-out privileges when they turned 10, with these requirements: Tell us where you are going to be -- leave a note inside the stateroom if that changes. Be back in the room when you are told to be back or when you said you would be. Do not enter another stateroom for any reason, and do not bring anyone into our stateroom.

The first trip when my daughter was 10, she was allowed only to go to and from the club for the first couple of days, so we could make sure she knew her way around and could follow the rules. It might be helpful to do the Ship Tour on embarkation day, to help your kids get a sense of how to get around the ship (and how many castmembers there are all around).

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Thanks for the responses, this helps a lot! Still not sure how much freedom we'll give him, but I like knowing this has worked out well for others.
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We have sailed a couple of times with our girls that age. I tell them where they are able to go like down to get ice cream or a drink. I always go get them for meals and they have a wave phone that we can talk and text on. We have never had an issue. They love the clubs so much and they keep them really busy that they usually stay in that area. A lot of kids hang out on the stairs going up to the Edge and don't seem to wander too far. Kids that age are very capable. I think back to what I was doing at that age(going to the store for my Mom and pretty much out all day with no supervision). Your kid will be fine.
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Our DD is 13 and she has been great when it comes to letting us know when she is leaving the Edge and where she is going. It is our experience that the Edge is a meeting point for them to do other activities on the ship. A lot of times they are doing the Water Slides as a group or a movie or the sports deck activities like Dodge Ball. They also meet there on Pirate Night and go to the Deck Party together to watch the show and dance. We were very pleased to see that the girls did character pictures as a group and it was a nice surprise when we went to Shutters to check out the pictures each day.
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I also let mine have sign in/out privileges, however she knew our rules and had to follow them. Rules included absolutely not going into anyone else's stateroom or bringing any one into ours and we basically had to know where she was going if it was not up for food or with a planned activity with the counselors - so we could quickly locate her if needed.

Basically signing in/out privilege 'helps' as that group can go with the DCL counselors for 'trips' around the ship - they would go to a game show together, or to the sports deck. When she was that age, the ones who couldn't sign in/out were not allowed to go, since it was considered outside the club (even with the counselors) Not sure if that has changed. Most of the time she only signed out with her friends to go to the sports deck or to the counter serve for food or drink and then right back to the club.
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