Puberty has arrived! - PassPorter - A Community of Walt Disney World, Disneyland, Disney Cruise Line, and General Travel Forums
PassPorter.com
Award-winning travel guidebooks

   guidebooks   |   news   |   podcasts   |   boards   |   blog   |   worksheets   |   photos   |   articles   |   updates   |   register   |   follow us on


Forums Closed
As of January 1, 2019, we have closed our forums. This is a decision we did not come to lightly, but it is necessary. The software our forums run on is just too out-of-date and it poses a significant security risk. The server software itself must be updated, and it cannot be without removing the forums.

So it is with a heavy heart that we say goodbye to our long-running forums. They came online in 2000 and brought together so many wonderful Disney fans. We had friendships form, careers launch, couples marry, children born ... all because of this amazing community.

Thank you to each of you who were a part of this community. You made it possible.

And a very special thank you to our Guides (moderators), past and present, who kept our forums a happy place to be. You are the glue that held everything together, and we are forever grateful to you. Thank you aliceinwdw, Caldercup, MrsM, WillCAD, Fortissimo, GingerJ, HiddenMickey, CRCrazy, Eeyoresmom, disneyknut, disneydani, Cam22, chezp, WDWfan, Luvsun, KMB733, rescuesk, OhToodles!, Colexis Mom, lfredsbo, HiddenMickey, DrDolphin, DopeyGirl, duck addict, Disneybine, PixieMichele, Sandra Bostwick, Eeyore Tattoo, DyanKJ130, Suzy Q'Disney, LilMarcieMouse, AllisonG, Belle*, Chrissi, Brant, DawnDenise, Crystalloubear, Disneymom9092, FanOfMickey, Goofy4Goofy, GoofyMom, Home4us123, iamgrumpy, ilovedisney247, Jennifer2003, Jenny Pooh, KrisLuvsDisney, Ladyt, Laughaholic88, LauraBelle Hime, Lilianna, LizardCop, Loobyoxlip, lukeandbrooksmom, marisag, michnash, MickeyMAC, OffKilter_Lynn, PamelaK, Poor_Eeyore, ripkensnana, RobDVC, SHEANA1226, Shell of the South, snoozin, Statelady01, Tara O'Hara, tigger22, Tink and Co., Tinkerbelz, WDWJAMBA, wdwlovers, Wendyismyname, whoSEZ, WildforWD, and WvuGrrrl. You made the magic.

We want to personally thank Sara Varney, who coordinated our community for many years (among so many other things she did for us), and Cheryl Pendry, our Message Board Manager who helped train our Guides, and Ginger Jabour, who helped us with the PassPorter-specific forums and Live! Guides. Thank you for your time, energy, and enthusiasm​. You made it all happen.

There are other changes as well.

Why? Well, the world has changed. And change with it, we must. The lyrics to "We Go On" for IllumiNations say it best:

We go on to the joy and through the tears
We go on to discover new frontiers
Moving on with the current of the years.
We go on
Moving forward now as one
Moving on with a spirit born to run
Ever on with each rising sun.
To a new day, we go on.

It's time to move on and move forward.

PassPorter is a small business, and for many years it supported our family. But the world changed, print books took a backseat to the Internet, and for a long time now it has been unable to make ends meet. We've had to find new ways to support our family, which means new careers and less and less time available to devote to our first baby, PassPorter.

But eventually, we must move on and move forward. It is the right thing to do.

So we are retiring this newsletter, as we simply cannot keep up with it. Many thanks to Mouse Fan Travel who supported it all these years, to All Ears and MousePlanet who helped us with news, to our many article contributors, and -- most importantly -- to Sara Varney who edited our newsletter so wonderfully for years and years.

And we are no longer charging for the Live Guides. If you have a subscription, it's yours to keep for the lifetime of the Live Guides at no additional cost. The Live Guides will stay online, barring server issues and technical problems, for all of 2019.

That said, PassPorter is not going away. Most of the resources will remain online for as long as we can support them, and after that we will find ways to make whatever we can available. PassPorter means a great deal to us, and to many of you, and we will do our best to keep it alive in whatever way we can. Our server costs are high, and they'll need to come out of our pockets, so in the future you can expect some changes so we can bring those costs down.

Thank you, thank you, thank you for your amazing support over the years. Without you, there's no way us little guys could have made something like this happen and given the "big guys" a run for their money. PassPorter was consistently the #3 guidebook after the Unofficial and Official guides, which was really unheard of for such a small company to do. We ROCKED it thanks to you and your support and love!

If you miss us, you can still find some of us online. Sara started a new blog at DisneyParkPrincess.com -- I strongly urge you to visit and get on her mailing list. She IS the Disney park princess and knows Disney backward and forward. And I am blogging as well at JenniferMaker.com, which is a little craft blog I started a couple of years ago to make ends meet. You can see and hear me in my craft show at https://www.youtube.com/c/jennifermaker . Many PassPorter readers and fans are on Facebook, in groups they formed like the PassPorter Trip Reports and PassPorter Crafting Challenge (if you join, just let them know you read about it in the newsletter). And some of our most devoted community members started a forum of their own at Pixie Dust Lane and all are invited over.

So we encourage you to stay in touch with us and your fellow community members wherever works best for you!

Best wishes for a wonderful and magical new year!

Go Back   PassPorter - A Community of Walt Disney World, Disneyland, Disney Cruise Line, and General Travel Forums > PassPorter Villa: Sharing the Fun Together > The Family Room: Family and Friends
Register


Welcome! We're happy you've found the PassPorter Community -- the friendliest place to plan your vacation to Walt Disney World, Disney Cruise Line, Disneyland, and the world in general! You are now viewing the PassPorter Message Board Community as a guest, which gives you limited access. As our guest, feel free to browse our messages by selecting the forum you want to visit from the list below.

To post messages and ask questions, join our FREE community today and you'll get access to tools and resources not available to guests, such as our vacation countown timers, "living" avatars, private messaging system, database searches, downloads, and a special PassPorter discount code. Registration is fast, simple, and completely free. Just click the Join Our Community link.

If you think you've already joined, log in below now. If you don't remember your member name or password, please visit our Member Name and Password Recovery page. You are also welcome to contact us.

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 09-02-2013, 11:23 PM   #1
notjustamom
Community Rank: Globetrotter
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Long Island
Posts: 3,476

Post Thanks / Like
Puberty has arrived!

Disclaimer: This post may be more suitable for females, lol.

My poor DD had a rough go of it today. Without getting too detail oriented she said it was "one of the worst days of my life" and she has decided that becoming a teenager isn't all it's cracked up to be. She said "I changed my mind, I want to go back in time". Sorry kid, part of being a girl and part of becoming a teenager. The only saving grace is that school doesn't start until the 9th (I know, right?) so she'll be home the next few days while she tries to sort it all out. Poor baby was in tears with fears / anxieties / concerns / pain . All you women know how she feels and Ill take any advice from moms of girls who have gone through this.
__________________
Our last WDW trip as a family
My Countdown Counting down to: Magical family Gathering
Let The magic Begin...
My Previous TripsWDW 1982, WDW GF Sept. 1998 honeymoon, WL April 06, WL Nov. 08, BWV March 10, BCV Oct. 11, GF Nov. 13, BWI Jan. '15
notjustamom is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 01:24 AM   #2
Tink and co.
 
Tink and co.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Northern NV
Concierge Level: 6
Posts: 12,516

Post Thanks / Like
Poor thing! My girls swear by caffeine, chocolate, and ibuprofen.
__________________

Fantasyland Fun!

Rebecca Guide DL Feasting and Snacking:The Eateries and DL Touring the Lands: Disney Parks
My Countdown Counting down to: Disneyland 10k
Running for Fun!
My Previous TripsToo many DLR trips to count! WDW Nov. 2004, July 2005, Jan, Mar, & Nov. 2006. DCL Nov. 2004 & Nov. 2006
Tink and co. is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 03:08 AM   #3
Thomhazel
Community Rank: Globetrotter
 
Thomhazel's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2010
Concierge Level: 6
Posts: 3,288

Post Thanks / Like
All I can say is it gets easier, but i'm with her I'd like to go back in time too.
__________________
Scottish Hogmanay (with a stolen Picture)

My Countdown Counting down to: WDW, Disney Dream and Universal
Chillin at disney
Thomhazel is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 03:48 AM   #4
rescuesk
Magic Happens!
PassPorter's Club Passholder


What's this?

PassPorter Guide

Community Rank: Legend
 
rescuesk's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2001
Location: E. Stroudsburg, PA
Concierge Level: 6
Posts: 29,184

Post Thanks / Like
__________________


http://www.passporter.com/images/lizardcop-memorial-ribbon.png




"Never have an ordinary day."
My Countdown Counting down to: Walking for a cure in Philly, year 7!
Because everyone deserves a lifetime!
My PassPorter Bookshelf
My Previous TripsVillas at Wilderness Lodge, October 2015. Awesome trip!!!
rescuesk is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 06:13 AM   #5
Huntermom
Community Rank: Explorer
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Location: Northern New England
Posts: 12,249

Post Thanks / Like
__________________

Charlie
Huntermom is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 06:31 AM   #6
patclairesmom
Community Rank: Jetsetter
 
patclairesmom's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 2,831

Post Thanks / Like
Awwww. Thank goodness it's a week till school.
__________________

My Countdown Counting down to: Our Anniversary at Disney
My PassPorter Bookshelf
My Previous TripsPOFQ-2004, POR/Poly-Nov 2007, POR 2008, POR 2012, Radisson Celebration 2012, AK-Kidani and Jambo 2013
patclairesmom is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 07:34 AM   #7
GATechGal
Community Rank: Explorer
 
GATechGal's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2003
Location: Atlanta, GA
Posts: 7,569

Post Thanks / Like
Bless her heart. We all go through it.
__________________
-Mary Ann -
Mad for the Mouse


My PassPorter Bookshelf
GATechGal is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 08:05 AM   #8
home4us123
PassPorter's Club Passholder


What's this?

Community Rank:
Legend Extraordinaire
 
home4us123's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Endicott, NY
Concierge Level: 7
Posts: 34,154

Post Thanks / Like
__________________


Mindy PassPorter Co-Guide for The Family Room, Going Behind the Scenes and The Porch
My Countdown Counting down to: Walt Disney World
My PassPorter Bookshelf <table width=100% height=75 cellspacing=0 cellpadding=0 border=0><tr><td width=86 style='background-image: url(http://www.passporter.com/concierge/ticker/countdown22512-659.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;'><a href='http://www.passporterboards.com/concierge/walt-disney-world-2013-trip659.html' border=0><img src='http://www.passporter.com/forums/club/images/bookshelf/transparent.png' height=75 width=86 border=0></a></td><td align=left style='background-image: url(http://www.passporter.com/forums/club/images/bookshelf/shelf22512.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;'><a href='http://www.passporterboards.com/forums/club/bookshelf.php?member=22512&name=home4us123' border=0><img src='http://www.passporter.com/forums/club/images/bookshelf/transparent.png' height=75 width=200 border=0></a></td></tr></table>
My Previous TripsWDW 1988, WDW 1990, Feb. 08. OffSite, August/September 09 Saratoga Springs THV, August/September 2010 POFQ, August/September 2011 Pop Century, August 2013 SSR
home4us123 is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 08:39 AM   #9
Danidurph
Community Rank: Trekker
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Hatboro Pa
Posts: 1,319

Post Thanks / Like
Once she realizes its not the end of the world, it will be no issue! My dd was better once she realized that her friends were in the same boat. She was 11. It gets easier
__________________
dani durph
My Countdown Counting down to: Days til Our first DCL adventure
My PassPorter Bookshelf
My Previous TripsWDW 1976, WDW 1980, WDW 1984, WDW 1988, WDW 1994 honeymoon, WDW 2004, WDW 2008, DL 2009, WDW 2010, WDW 2013, Disney Magic 2014, WDW adult trip 2015, US/Disney Fantasy/WDW Sara grad trip 2016, WDW BC for princess half 2/2107, WDW for Star Wars 10K 4/2017, DL 5/2017 for Tink
Danidurph is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 08:44 AM   #10
Teresa
Community Rank: Legend
 
Join Date: Mar 2001
Location: Indiana , USA
Concierge Level: 7
Posts: 26,527

Post Thanks / Like
Maybe it's me, but I'm trying to figure out why she's so upset? Did she not know that would happen? Was she unprepared? Why would it be such a huge deal?
It's part of life, part of being female, and just a non-issue to me.
My girls all started by age 13. It was something we had spoken about, but not focused on.
I guess the best thing is to NOT down play her pain (physical) while letting her know wallowing in self pity won't be accepted. DDs have varying issues with that monthly friend. Everything from no pain to need medication just to function. My sister and I were the same way - I had no pain, no warning, nothing. My sister on the hand... well, it was not good.
I hope your daughter recovers from her shock/upset and realizes it's just a fact/part of life.
Pixies that she's feeling more like herself and less like someone who's been invaded by alien forces soon.
__________________
My PassPorter Bookshelf
Teresa is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 08:46 AM   #11
Danidurph
Community Rank: Trekker
 
Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Hatboro Pa
Posts: 1,319

Post Thanks / Like
My dd was prepared but a girl that got it before her told her it was so horrible and she misses school every month the day it arrives. But once my dd realized life isn't over, you would never know.
__________________
dani durph
My Countdown Counting down to: Days til Our first DCL adventure
My PassPorter Bookshelf
My Previous TripsWDW 1976, WDW 1980, WDW 1984, WDW 1988, WDW 1994 honeymoon, WDW 2004, WDW 2008, DL 2009, WDW 2010, WDW 2013, Disney Magic 2014, WDW adult trip 2015, US/Disney Fantasy/WDW Sara grad trip 2016, WDW BC for princess half 2/2107, WDW for Star Wars 10K 4/2017, DL 5/2017 for Tink
Danidurph is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 09:59 AM   #12
JoanneS
Community Rank: Explorer
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Peterborough, NH
Concierge Level: 6
Posts: 11,088

Post Thanks / Like
The poor thing. I know how she feels, I started praying for menopause when I was about 20. I'm sure once she finds a few friends in the same situation she'll feel a little better. Some chocolate would help, too. (only 40 years left!)
__________________


Rico: He's not a mutt, he's a "Designer Breed."
My Countdown Counting down to: Its all about the Food and Wine
Tasting it All
My Previous TripsWDW Nov 1987, offsite WDW-April 2007, AS-Movies WDW-Dec. 2007, Contemporary WDW-Jan. 2009, Caribbean Beach WDW-April 2009, AS-Music Family Suites WDW-Dec. 2009, Port Orleans French Quarter WDW-May 2010, Boardwalk Inn WDW-Nov. 2010, Animal Kingdom Lodge WDW-Jan. 2011, Port Orleans Riverside/Polynesian WDW-Oct. 2011, Pop Century WDW - Jan. 2012, Wilderness Lodge WDW - Jan. 2013, Art of Animation and Yacht Club WDW - Oct. 2013, Coronado Springs WDW- Jan. 2014, All Star Sports WDW - Jan. 2015, Grand Floridian WDW - Dec. 2015, Beach Club Resort
JoanneS is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 10:10 AM   #13
krisk11
Community Rank: Explorer
 
krisk11's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: the Burbs outside of Philadelphia
Concierge Level: 1
Posts: 12,093

Post Thanks / Like
Midol and chocolate!!!!! My dd was 11 when it started and it was also the first week of middle school and the day after she broke her hand playing hockey. It was a rough week but she got thru and yours will too.
__________________










My Countdown Counting down to: Magical trip to Yacht Club
We just can't stay away
My PassPorter Bookshelf <table width=100% height=75 border=0><tr><td style='background-image: url(http://www.passporter.com/forums/club/images/bookshelf/shelf7705.png); background-repeat: no-repeat;'><a href='http://www.passporterboards.com/concierge/bookshelf.php?member=7705&name=krisk11' border=0><img src='http://www.passporter.com/forums/club/images/bookshelf/transparent.png' height=75 width=100% border=0></a></td></tr></table>
My Previous TripsOct 2002 AS Sports - Oct 2004 AS Movies - July 2005 POFQ - April 2007 Beach Club - June 2008 Coronado Springs/Polynesian - August 2009 AS Music - August 2011 Pop/Coronado Springs- Oct 2011 Boardwalk- July 2012 AS Sport/POR- Aug 2013 CBR
krisk11 is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 12:12 PM   #14
Starbright
Community Rank: Jetsetter
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Canada
Posts: 2,605

Post Thanks / Like
I dreaded it at first, but as time went on, I realize how important it was to me to have one-a somewhat regular one. It was relatively consistant, and I knew when it was coming. It is an exciting time. One of celebration. Take her out for lunch to celebrate this new phase of her life.

Now that I am getting "older" and premenopause is hitting, I am finding I am missing it. It is better than menopause LOL.
Starbright is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Old 09-03-2013, 01:35 PM   #15
KMB733
PassPorter Guide

Community Rank:
Legend Extraordinaire
 
KMB733's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Ballston Lake, NY
Concierge Level: 6
Posts: 46,162

Post Thanks / Like
You can be prepared all you like, but I don't care who you are, this first time it happens, it is the end of the world. Especially when it happens during the middle of the school day like it did for me. I swear by Advil, sweat pants and lots of chocolate!
__________________
Kathy
PassPorter Co-Guide for: Making More Magic
My Countdown Counting down to: Christmas
Merry Christmas
My PassPorter Bookshelf
My Previous TripsWDW June 1979, WDW 1985, WDW 1987, WDW Oct 2003, WDW March 2004, WDW Oct 2004, WDW Sept 2005--Pop Century , WDW Nov 2006--Pop Century, WDW Jan 2007--Pop Century, WDW Nov/Dec 2009--Pop Century, DLR Oct 2011, WDW Dec 2014
KMB733 is offline  
 
Reply With Quote
Reply



Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump














Please login or register to hide these ads -- it's free and easy!

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:43 PM.

-->

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.9
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Feedback Buttons provided by Advanced Post Thanks / Like v3.4.0 Patch Level 1 (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
(c) 1998-2017 PassPorter Travel Press/MediaMarx, Inc.
Celebrating 19 Years of Making Dreams Come True
Ad Management plugin by RedTyger