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Old 10-14-2010, 03:39 PM   #1
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Here is my dilemma. I have had some sort of gastrointestinal virus for over a week now. Needless to say, I haven't been feeling well and consequently not really eating much. DBF's brother has been staying with us for over two weeks now as he is a medical student doing a rotation at a local hospital. He is pretty self sufficient as far as finding something to eat when he gets home from his shift. However DBF's SIL is now coming to stay for a week and a half so she can see her husband ( and she has classes at the U next week.) The SIL is a picky eater and DBF thinks we should be making dinner tonight since she will be coming. While I like both the brother and SIL, I feel like crap and would love to just curl up on the couch and not do anything. Is it wrong to not make dinner, especially since I won't be able to eat it anyways, or should I be sucking it up and making something for them? DBF does cook, but what he wants tonight is something he doesn't know how to make. My "gut" reaction is to say "forget it" and every person is on their own. What would you do?
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If your DBF wants a meal for his brother and sister in law, he can cook something he can make or pick up take out. Plus I'm not sure I'd really enjoy an meal made by someone who was not feeling well even though I know you will be careful.
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Although there are times where I think I might be inclined to suck it up for company, this isn't one of them.
They're family, they're grown ups, and they're medical professionals. I think if they're old enough to be married, they're old enough to fend for themselves. I see nothing wrong with saying "I feel really crummy right now -- while I'm happy to see there's food in the kitchen, I just can't face cooking it. " Your diet of chicken soup and saltines will probably drive the point home
Who knows, by the end of the week you might feel like doing your Julia Child impression!
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I agree - don't do it. My main reason being; they aren't really guests. They're using your home as a hotel right now. Nothing wrong with that, we had people do that all of the time when we lived near the airport. However, they are there because of convenience, not because they wanted to visit with you and DBF or that you invited them.
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If you aren't feeling well, I wouldn't cook for guests. I know I wouldn't want to eat anything that someone with a virus may have handled.

I think that if you don't feel well enough to eat, you should send them all out to a restaurant and give yourself some quiet time.
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TAKE OUT!!!!!!!! HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER SOON!!!!!
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If you aren't feeling well, I wouldn't cook for guests. I know I wouldn't want to eat anything that someone with a virus may have handled.

I think that if you don't feel well enough to eat, you should send them all out to a restaurant and give yourself some quiet time.

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Yep, take out and let them pay for it Just tell them that you're not feeling well and would hate for them to catch what you have if you were to cook for them
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If your DBF wants a meal for his brother and sister in law, he can cook something he can make or pick up take out. Plus I'm not sure I'd really enjoy an meal made by someone who was not feeling well even though I know you will be careful.
On *both* accounts!

I would apologize, saying that you're not feeling well enough to cook (that you don't want to pass anything along to them, etc.), but you'll have a dinner for them later in the week... or something like that.

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I wouldn't cook It wouldn't be very healthy for anyone involved. Let them get take out or eat out so you can rest.
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Yep, take out and let them pay for it Just tell them that you're not feeling well and would hate for them to catch what you have if you were to cook for them
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