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Old 10-05-2010, 07:24 AM   #1
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Oops..Should I Have Tipped Him?

I had a headlight out in my car. I went to the auto parts store while DS was at karate last night and bought a new bulb. The clerk who sold me the bulb was very pleasant and personable and he offered to install the bulb for me. His exact words were, "I'll take a look and if it isn't too hard to install, I'll put it in for you." While he was doing this, we discovered that the headlight assembly had an inch of water in it, which he dumped out before installing the bulb. He told me I might have a leak and gave me some suggestions on what to do. I thanked him (several times) and then went on my way to pick up DS. When I got home, I told DH the light was fixed and that the clerk installed it. His first question was, "Did you tip him?" Now I feel horrible. It never occured to me to tip this gentleman. I don't frequent auto supply stores -is this common? Should I return to the store and leave a tip? WWYD?
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I wouldn't think of it as a tipping position. As you said, you thanked him several times. Maybe you could also call the store and let the boss know how nice and helpful he was?
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DH is a manager of an auto-parts store. No, you shouldn't have tipped him. That is what they are expected to do. DH has changed out lightbulbs, batteries, wiper blades, about anything you can quickly do (or not so quickly) in a parking lot, sometimes in a freezing rain or snow storm. No tipping is expected, ever. Thanking him profusely is more than most people do!
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I always give the person ten dollars. I've even done it if it just helping me get the hood opened (mine was hit by a tree and sometimes gets stuck). I really don't view it as a tip but some compensation for work that was done. And although Teresa's husband may make a good salary in management, some of the clerks are barely paid above minimum wage. Around here, the clerks do not routinely do installations.
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I would not have tipped him, but maybe send a thank you card to the store about the great Customer service provided by this clerk.
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I myself would not tip but that's because I've been in retail and many of the positions HIGHLY frown on accepting them. Some have it you could lose your job over accepting one if it's found out about. And as Teresa pointed out, in this particular case, something like that falls under the job description - if it didn't, he would never have offered to leave the store. I think a call to his manager is more in order as something like that should go in his record.
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In our area that is common service from an auto parts store. I would not think you had to tip him.
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I wouldn't've tipped -- he offered and you didn't expect the service.

What I *would* do is write a letter praising him for helping you and send it to corporate or give it to the manager of the store. That will go very far in helping him at his next review or when a higher position comes available. (Not to mention that it'll teach him the value of continued great customer service.)
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I wouldn't have tipped either. :

It isn't a tipped position, and I agree with Darlene in that, having worked retail a bit in my life, it is not "OK" to take tips in most retail jobs as you can get fired for accepting tips.

Call the manager and let him/her know that this guy went above and beyond . . . maybe he'll get a raise out of it instead.
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I always give the person ten dollars. I've even done it if it just helping me get the hood opened (mine was hit by a tree and sometimes gets stuck). I really don't view it as a tip but some compensation for work that was done. And although Teresa's husband may make a good salary in management, some of the clerks are barely paid above minimum wage. Around here, the clerks do not routinely do installations.
Gotta say - nope, DH doesn't make much more money than the clerks - less than a $1 an hour more. The reason he fought being a manager - more responsibility and no (okay, a little tiny bit) of compensation. And no matter how much he works and on what days (holidays, etc), he is NOT paid overtime.

I still stand with they are not tipped. It's in their job description. They are required to do it, and they make the same amount of money whether they put in your bulb or your battery or stand inside all day.

If I were going to tip everyone for doing their job, I'd be tipping the clerk at the clothing store for fetching me a different size or the shoe clerk for getting me a pair from the back. We tip servers because they are paid less than minimum wage, with the expectation that their customers will tip them. Housekeepers we tip because we're messy. Hair dressers because they're usually self-employed.
Do you tip the guy at the oil change place because he swept out the car (it's included in the price, it's in his job description)?
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Gotta say - nope, DH doesn't make much more money than the clerks - less than a $1 an hour more. The reason he fought being a manager - more responsibility and no (okay, a little tiny bit) of compensation. And no matter how much he works and on what days (holidays, etc), he is NOT paid overtime.

I still stand with they are not tipped. It's in their job description. They are required to do it, and they make the same amount of money whether they put in your bulb or your battery or stand inside all day.

If I were going to tip everyone for doing their job, I'd be tipping the clerk at the clothing store for fetching me a different size or the shoe clerk for getting me a pair from the back. We tip servers because they are paid less than minimum wage, with the expectation that their customers will tip them. Housekeepers we tip because we're messy. Hair dressers because they're usually self-employed.
Do you tip the guy at the oil change place because he swept out the car (it's included in the price, it's in his job description)?

I agree. Some people take tipping way to far. Putting the bulb in is likely in his job description. If not he could be in trouble for being away from his work station and now waiting on other customers.
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Most stores like this have signs up that actually say no tipping. I have even noticed this at our local grocery store where they ask if you need help taking your bags out to your car. I never accept the help anyway. The guys that bags the groceries are either barely 16 or retired gentlemen in their 60-70's.
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I wouldn't have tipped either. But I agree with a few others who have mentioned writing a letter or calling his manager to let them know what wonderful service you received.
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I would have tipped him exceeding his job description and saving you the effort. I would call the store and let the manager know
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Thank you all for your input. I'm going to contact the store manage and let him/her know what great customer service I received.
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