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Old 09-27-2010, 09:54 AM   #1
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Is this a bad Christmas gift idea??

I will start by saying my kids(2yo ds and 12yo dd) have everything they need and want. My ds will be sharing a bedroom soon as I am due to have a little boy in Feb. Both rooms are smallish kid size bedrooms. So my thought was to get Ds his own toddler bed set toy story themed and Dd a loft style bed. To me this sounds like its something a parent should just buy for the kids anyway not so much as a gift but its routine items that kids need. We have a playroom FULL of toys for ds and dd has all the new gadgets available with the exception of the new ipad but she has the itouch and a laptop so I don't feel it necessary to buy the ipad for a 12 yo. Dd has a bed already so its not like I really need to buy a new one, I just know she would like the extra floor space and can put her desk under her bed and free up a good amount of room. Am I being silly to think that these are good Christmas gifts or am I being (as always) overly critical of my parenting? I know the 4 sets of grandparents as well as the 4 sets of aunts/uncles will get the kids toys and stuff and we will get a few additional items, toys movies wii games etc. so its not like this would be it for them it would just be what would qualify as the "big" item for each of them. My other thing is that I have gotten a little out of control over the last 6 years when it comes to Christmas and dd would get what should probably been more appropriate for a family with 3 or 4 kids. I would like to try and bring things back to a more normal level. Sorry for the length of this just need a little feedback on what you think.

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Old 09-27-2010, 09:58 AM   #2
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You're being overly critical. Must be those hormones.

Tell me what parent DOESN'T manage to slip something kids NEED (pajamas, socks, clothes, etc.) under the tree?! Just because yours won't fit under the tree doesn't make it any less special or any less of a gift. As parents, we buy our kids stuff they need and want. It's our choice in what paper, if any, we wrap it in. Besides, kids tend to cherish and appreciate stuff more when it's given as a gift instead of just handed to them.
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I completely agree with the previous poster!
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You know what you kids need and what you can do for them. I think, unfortunately, so many gifts get "forgotten" but a bedroom set is something that will be kept for a long time and remembered!
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I think that is a great gift....

My son has wanted bunk beds forever, he is 6 now. They are so expensive that I can't just buy them any old time. So I have considered the same thing, getting them for Christmas. Plus, we are having a baby in Dec. so in a few years our new baby can take the bottom bunk....2 birds with one stone!
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I think the bed sounds like a great idea.
If it were the mattress -- I'd agree with you that it's pretty utilitarian and probably "not a Christmas gift"
But a fun Toy Story bed? Or a cool loft that makes your DD's room "more grown-up" ? I think those are the makings of a fun and memorable holiday.

And since you're analyzing -- what is wrong with us as parents teaching our kids that anything, when given with love, is "a gift"?
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I like the idea too.
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I like the idea as well but at first I was trying to figure out how you could pull it off being from Santa but then I saw the kids ages so I don't think that should matter? Or is it from you guys?

I haven't a clue how to do the santa thing yet but since DD is only 18 months I think I have another year to figure it out
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Yup, You're over thinking your parenting!

The girls were in kindergarten, their aunt & uncle gave them twin size beds for christmas. My mom then got them comforters and sheets to got with the bed. they LOVED it!. They didn't feel cheated by Santa or anything. In fact, the more I think about it, they got the toddler beds for christmas when they were 2. Again, loved it because they were no longer in a crib and in a 'big girl' bed.

Two christmas's ago, DD#2 got a whole new bed set - comforter, sheets, pillow, body pillow for christmas, last christmas DD#1 got the same thing. Neither daughter felt cheated out of any of the lastest gadgets for christmas.
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Thanks everyone! DD knows that all gifts are really from us but we mark it from Santa anyway. I think the biggest lesson will be that things don't happen instantly and we really need to wait for Christmas(dd really wants her room done now). AND that you may not get everything on the list. I really have lost sight of that in the last few years getting the kids whatever they wanted(need or not) at any time of year and having a really over the top Christmas as well. I always wanted the best for my kids but have come to realize that I may not have been setting a realistic example of life. So its bed sets for them and I can do it without feeling as if I am slighting either of them.
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While my kids were never into decorating, my older son did get a futon one year for his birthday. I had a couple of friends whose teenaged DD's always asked for linens, furniture and room accessories for Christmas. My neice got a new bedroom set from her grandmother for her bat mitzvah.
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I think its a great idea. My brother and SIL did the same thing for my nieces two Christmases ago.
Thanks to the extended family, they still had plenty to open on Christmas morning.
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Sounds like a great idea to me! DD got her queen size bed for her birthday last year (and she was fine with it)!
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When I was around your DD's age, my parents bought me a loft bed for my birthday. I it!!! My room was small and the bed was a perfect fit and made me feel grown up. I think new bedroom sets are perfect gifts for the kids.
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Sounds better than the year I had a new toilet and a vacuum cleaner under the tree with my name on them.
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