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Old 05-24-2010, 06:12 PM   #1
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I'm going to kill him...

Today, I gave Lenny a honey-do list because it was his day off from Walgreens. Out of 5 items, 2 were really short time wise and number one on the list - the most important thing for him to do today - was to call and find out what we can do about our health insurance situation. I'm sure many of you see where this is leading. Lenny never called. He's been outside all day doing whatever it is he's been doing to his van. I am so ready to kill him. It's not like I asked him to do alot. And the only reason why I had for him to call is because we currently have MassHealth with him being the main "subscriber" to it. For some reason, Massheath takes this HIPPA crap way to seriously and I cannot call them about anything, they won't talk to me. I've tried and I always got the same answer, they could only talk to Lenny about all of that . They could only help me with issues regarding only me and my appointments, etc. They wouldn't even talk to me about Abby, it had to be Lenny. Maybe others have had it easier, but they won't talk to me which makes things really, really hard. So right now, I am just so (*&^% ticked at him. He's been outside since 8 am this morning. It's now 6 pm and he's accomplished nothing on the list and he works from 8 am to 9 pm the rest of the week, except Saturday, And next Monday, when he has a day off again is Memorial day which means no one will be at Masshealth for him to call. (imagine Lenny's head in place of that computer).

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Old 05-24-2010, 06:19 PM   #2
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Darlene, it's alright, I completely understand. Our insurance company is the same way, won't twlk to anyone but the subscriber. It is frusterating and I'm sure you want to strangle Lenny right now. It is frusterating when they will only talk to the main subscriber and not someone else on the policy. Tons of hugs for you.
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My DH occasionally does the same type of thing. SOOOO frustrating. All I can do is send you a few and let you know, you are not alone in your pain.

Is there any way Lenny can "authorize" them to talk to you? Especially since your schedule seems to be more flexible??
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Oh, I hear you!!!! It drives me flippin nuts when I take the time to WRITE DOWN something I need DH to do when he's not busy and I am, and then he "forgets" to do it. Sometimes I think I need to tattoo it to his arm... ...boys.
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The MassHealth is doing what they should. I know it's frustrating, but it's a federal law and pounded into everyone who deals with healthcare's head.
There SHOULD, however, be something that Lenny can sign, giving them permission to talk to YOU. Maybe you could call them tomorrow and ask them it.
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Insurance is so funky about privacy stuff now. I know it's necessary a lot of times, but it does get frustrating.

Brent is the same way about things like that. I ask him to make calls or what-have-you and he will, but in his own sweet time. I think it's the way of the male species.

Brent took Sarah to have her wisdom teeth removed this morning and the person at the front desk would only talk to Sarah (she's 18) about her appointment as well as the bill, even though Brent was the one who wrote the check for the surgery.
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I agree with the others about having your DH sign a consent allowing you to talk to them. As far as the list, is it possible that your DH might be resentful of you telling him what HE needs to do. You are both responsible adults. Wouldn't it be better to sit down and discuss what needs to be done, who is best able to accomplish it, and divide up the duties? I can't blame him for not wanting to spend every waking hour of his free time doing what you think he should be doing. If today was his only day off, maybe there were things he wanted to do and calling slipped his mind. JMHO.
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Teresa is right. There is something Lenny can sign to have you talk to MA Health. I know because to this day, I can call for my soon to be exh because he is just too impatient to do it himself. And not the brightest bulb.
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Men can be so stupid sometimes!!!!!!! Maybe he can call on his lunch hour tomorrow.
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As far as the list, is it possible that your DH might be resentful of you telling him what HE needs to do. You are both responsible adults. Wouldn't it be better to sit down and discuss what needs to be done, who is best able to accomplish it, and divide up the duties? I can't blame him for not wanting to spend every waking hour of his free time doing what you think he should be doing. If today was his only day off, maybe there were things he wanted to do and calling slipped his mind.
A lot of the list on his day off is stuff he wants to get done so I know he's not resentful of it. I make it because he has the bad habit of forgetting what it was he wants to get done. Once in a great while I'll throw something on there I'd like done (like today I wanted him to cut up the chicken leg quarters I bought yesterday - I do a really bad hack job on them) but it's not a killing affair if it doesn't. Today, Masshealth was first on the list becasue he has to do it, they won't talk to me and I just feel that should have been his first priority above everything else. The insurance doesn't just affect me, it affects him and Abby too so that was something he should have done for the family first before he did something only for himself IMO.

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There is something Lenny can sign to have you talk to MA Health. I know because to this day, I can call for my soon to be exh because he is just too impatient to do it himself.
Thanks for that information. Knowing that, I'll see if Lenny will call and get it. Like was mentioned, with my schedule, I have a lot more availability to make phone calls than he does.
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Speaking as a man (and an incurable procrastinator, to boot) ... that's not an excuse, not in the situation described by CinderAbby.

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Teresa is right. There is something Lenny can sign to have you talk to MA Health. I know because to this day, I can call for my soon to be exh because he is just too impatient to do it himself. And not the brightest bulb.
If nothing else, he could grant her Power of Attorney in all medical matters. That's a bit drastic, but honestly, as his wife she'd get that by default if he were ever rendered incapable of communicating his own decisions, anyway.
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