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Old 04-17-2009, 03:41 PM   #1
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Legal Question - Hope someone may know

Has anyone ever heard of grandparents suing a child for rights to see their grandchildren?

Does anyone know where to look up such a case (if there is one) to study it and see what the outcome was?

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Old 04-17-2009, 03:52 PM   #2
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Yep. I've heard of it, but wouldn't know where to start to look up the case.
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yes i have and actually i'd start with a consultation (usually free) with a family lawyer. its the quickest way to determine what actions to take.
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I'm pretty sure that it's been done in the UK and I think Grandparents do have some rights over here, but I don't know about the States. Good luck finding out.
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Yes, I have heard of such a thing. My ex-husband actually threatened to have his parents sue me for grandparent visitation after we separated. He didn't want to use his visitation time for the girls to see his family. I have no problem with his family seeing the kids and his parents wouldn't have sued me for visitation. Of course, once he got married, his wife got mad that his family still sees me some because of the kids. Anyway, I agree with oldmom that you could consult with a lawyer. It most likely depends on which state you are in as to how such a thing would be handled.
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I'm not a lawyer, but asked my BIL who is. According to him, laws vary widely by state. He suggested starting with this article for a brief history and some good links for you to follow.
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Asked my DH and he said that it does vary state by state and to consult a
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I have heard of it. I'm sure if you google it, something will come up.
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I use to work with a woman who sued her ex-DIL for visitation and won a 1 weekend a month visitation. This was in Texas.
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You should talk to an attorney. The law varies by state. There have been many cases in various state courts that have changed the status of this question in recent years.
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I am a family law attorney and as someone said above, it varies from state to state. Most family issues are considered state issues and the Supreme Court is very reluctant to intervene.

The case cited in the article that is linked opened the door for grandparents rights. Many states have specific statutes or laws about when a grandparent can request visitation rights and under what circumstances. You can usually find state laws online these days.

In my state a grandparents may under statute request visitation when there is a divorce. But many courts allow grandparents to intervene in other proceedings based on the divorce statute. The cannot bring a proceeding on their own in my state.

I agree that if this is an issue, you might want to consult a family lawyer. Even if you have to pay a consultation fee, it may be money well spent. Reading a case, even a case in your state may not help you. Would you know if that case has been overturned?

Perhaps the better place to start would be with some family counseling. It may be where a court sends you. Courts do not like to make family decisions and as someone who spends most of her days in a family court setting, the families usually will do much better if they can resolve the issues without court intervention.

I generally represent children or their best interest. When I do I am in the unique position of hearing all sides of the story, not just my client's like I do when I represent an adult. I'm not sure I've ever been on a case where one person is totally right or totally wrong. There's usually a little of both.
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I think the answer has been given by people way more qualified than I. I will add, I've known someone who was sued by his parents to allow visitation, and after showing that they are not good for his kids, the grandparents are not allowed near the kids.
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I've heard of it before too, but I can't think of any specific cases. :
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