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Old 05-31-2008, 12:25 PM   #1
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Well....it truly is an empty nest now

Sad - I am sad.
Our third and last son has officially left the nest.
As I sit here typing this, I am crying
Nate and Ashley (his fiance) flew up from Florida on Wednesday to
pack up his life and get his car. They left about 2 hours ago....going
back to Naples Florida to start a new chapter in their life.
My house is empty. My heart is lonely.
Where does the time go?
If someone had told me 26 years ago when I started having children how difficult and sad this would be....
When Adam left, I still had Zach and Nate.
When Zach left, I still had Nate.
When Nate left......I have
well, I have my hubbie and two yorkies.
I loved my life when all my boys were here at home and life was busy and fun.
I miss them.
Sorry for the sad post.......I just needed to talk.
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Old 05-31-2008, 12:33 PM   #2
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It is sad, but I'm sure they'll be happy because of you!
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I know I will feel the same way when mine are all moved out. Just try to think of all the things you can do without them and try to enjoy the next chapter in your life!
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It is a big adjustment. When DD was a freshman in college, she went to a college in the area so I got to see her every weekend. However she didn't like that school, so she applied to and got accepted at Arizona State. She moved down there two years ago now, and it was a big adjustment since I was a single parent and she was an only child. I still really miss her, but I see her every three months or so. She either comes home to visit or I fly down there. and for you during this difficult time.
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Been there! But wait until you and DH start to reconnect...there's a whole new life out there, I promise!!!!!
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I'm sorry. I had a hard time when Samantha moved out, and I still had 2 little ones at home! Now, we're looking at only 3 years before Kathryn goes off to college, and 5 years after that for Lauren. I'm already sad.
I'd say get a dog - that's what I did when Samantha left, but you already have some.

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As the mom of 22, 20, 19 and 14 year olds - I know the time is coming for me as well. Look at the bright side - your house will always be clean !
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I'm so sorry Ann I guess you need to reflect on the fact that if it hadn't been for your wonderful mothering your boys would not be able to be out there making it on their own : Someone posted here awhile ago something to the effect that being a mother is the only job where doing a great job only gets you fired in the end
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Ann - I feel your pain! My oldest is also 26 and she has been gone for 4 years now. My next oldest will be getting married in 3 weeks (a time of excitement and joy but also sadness because another baby bird is leaving the nest!) and our "baby" is 22 now and I know as soon as school is done for him, he will be out too! Not that we see much of him with school, work and a social life to attend to. It's getting very lonely in this big ol' house! I sure miss the days of dance lessons, karate class, soccer practice and games and softball and little league seasons! Where did all that time go?
I guess we need to find new activities to keep us busy til the grandbabies come along to fall in love with! Now I'm crying too! Pixies to you that you'll get over this melancholy moment!
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