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Old 12-15-2007, 08:19 PM   #1
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how do you say you're sorry

to someone who is obviously VERY angry & upset with you? I have made someone I love VERY much very very angry with me over a mistrust issues.

DH has not been feeling well & has been very quiet & kinda down.. & last week I accused him of something (wrongly) & he has been mad at me ever since. I did apologize & tell him I was wrong but he's still mad & I'm getting the silent treatment most of the time & short responses when we do talk.

I feel very bad over this but can't TELL him as he's not talking to me.. I came into this marriage with a lot of baggage & have such low self-esteem & insecurity that led me to rush to judgement . I have tried to tell him this but he isn't listening at the moment.

any suggestions would be appreciated.. He is not the romantic type so a mushy note or something similar would get me a look like I grew a 3rd head..

I know he is worried about his health & so am I, so our house is VERY tense at the moment.. He had some blood work done last week & his liver enzymes are double what they should be so doctor ordered more tests & a liver scan & we are awaiting the results. So any pixies for him on that front would be GREATLY appreciated.

Would also appreciate pixies for US.. I hate this feeling when we're on the 'outs'
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I am sorry that things are bad right now, I have been in your situation before and sometimes it does take some time before things get better, my husband and I have gone a few weeks being mad but we always manage to talk and work it out. I hope it gets better for you.
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I'm the silent one in fights, not DH (who likes to talk and talk and talk) so no advice, just lots of
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Lots of over his liver, it's horrible waiting for health updates. Outside of that, I don't think it's fair that he's making you feel so awful for saying something out of your own hurt. Maybe you said was kinda out-there, but I can't imagine that it warranted a week-long silent treatment. Last fall DH and I had a big argument about his moods and how I was no longer going to be controlled by them, and I think he's finally realized how destructive his moody behavior can be and things have been a lot better. That's my experience, hope things get better in your house--living in tension is no way to live!
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LOL, Me too. My wife...BLABS alot. Me; i like to be quiet.
Honestly, He will get over it. You apologized. Nothing more needs to be done.
You apologized and you are being nice, What more could he ask for in this situation.
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Not sure of any advice as I have been there too! My DH loves to give the silent treatment then most of the time I go back apologizing. Pixies that things get better and that his health gets better as well. (we're going through health issues here too)
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my sister and i are going through a thing right now too. except i'm the one not really talking to her. long story, but i know she doesn't feel like you do, and probably isn't going to apologize.

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Hang in there, Ann, he'll get over it. I'm with Rachel, I think he is taking it a little far with the whole week thing.
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