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Old 05-04-2007, 09:42 AM   #1
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Childcare Thoughts

We aren't even sure we will do any childcare, but I'm just trying to explore my options.

Our kids will be 6yo (Beth) and 2yo (Ben) during our trip in December. In fact Ben's Birthday is while we are there.

We are tossing around childcare ideas and trying to figure out if it is worth it to split the kids up... send Beth to one of the "clubs" and get an in room sitter for Ben, or just keep them together w/ an in room sitter.

Beth would definitely have a lot of fun at a club. She's a Disney freak, into crafts and the clubs sound right up her alley.

When dh and I were talking about this last night, my reply to him is that we would really just have to wait and see how Ben is doing w/ strangers when the time comes... which I basically think is my answer, just wanted to see if anyone else had any ideas?

Oh and I have mentioned before that my MIL lives 20min away... it really isn't an option w/ Ben being so young. Even though I shouldn't, I trust a babysitter through disney or one of the services over MIL to take care of our energetic son!
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Oh and I have mentioned before that my MIL lives 20min away... it really isn't an option w/ Ben being so young. Even though I shouldn't, I trust a babysitter through disney or one of the services over MIL to take care of our energetic son!
If you've had previous experience(s) where your mil has demonstrated that she shouldn't be trusted to care for your kids or she was abusive (in any fashion) to you dh when was a child; I totally understand and agree with not wanting/allowing her to watch them. On a personal note if I had kids there is no way that I would allow my father to be alone with them. He was abusive to me and my stepsister (stepmom's daughter) and has anger management problems. So, I would trust a sitter through Disney over my father any day.
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If you've had previous experience(s) where your mil has demonstrated that she shouldn't be trusted to care for your kids or she was abusive (in any fashion) to you dh when was a child; I totally understand and agree with not wanting/allowing her to watch them. On a personal note if I had kids there is no way that I would allow my father to be alone with them. He was abusive to me and my stepsister (stepmom's daughter) and has anger management problems. So, I would trust a sitter through Disney over my father any day.
Nope, she's not abusive, just hmm ... nice way to put this... dim. If it was just dd, who will be 6.5yo when we are there, I would feel fine if MIL came and hung out w/ her at the resort for dh and I to go out. But I don't think she could handle our son who will turn 2yo while we are there. All I can think about is Ben getting loose on the grounds and ending up in a pool!
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Are you talking a mid-day thing or at nite for a couples dinner out?

DD loves the Neverland Club -- it may have been her favorite part of our trip when she was 5. But with two kids and only one able to do a kids club, I think I would opt for leaving both with the in-room sitter. Especially for a dinner/evening out time frame. Definately easier, and cheaper, too. We left DD at NC and went to dinner at Artist Point -- it did take a bit of logistical arranging to get the times lined up. To add in a sitter arriving before we could leave would have driven me nuts.

But if you think your daughter would enjoy the club things, maybe you could sign her up for a daytime activity like the Pirate Adventure or Tea with Alice. It would give her the "big kids" time without her brother.
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