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Old 12-18-2006, 08:24 AM   #1
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I am so bummed...

I know I shouldn't be, but I am. I am just so disappointed with my family. I worked really hard this year to be able to surprise them with really nice gifts at Christmas. My dad has always been able to surprise me with something really special that he had put a great deal of thought into. Not this year. My dad handed me his credit card last night and asked me to go online and order whatever it was I had asked for, so he could get it in time to put it under the tree. My brother also called me last night to tell me that he had used all of his money to buy a Nintendo Wii that he really wanted, so dad would be covering my gift from him.

I know that I probably should not be upset. After all, the gifts are not what Christmas is about. I know that. My brother said that to me last night when I told him how upset I was. He also said "It's the thought that counts!". I agree with that, but I don't feel like they thought about me at all. I would rather have a card with a heart felt sentiment, as opposed to what I am facing. It is not the gift thing I am upset with. It is the total lack of thought.

I just feel like the magic of Christmas morning with my family is gone. I am so sorry to vent to all of you, but I thank you for listening. Nobody here is listening to me at all.
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Old 12-18-2006, 08:54 AM   #2
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Re: I am so bummed...

Sorry, Erin [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img] I buy all my own gifts and the gifts for the boys, give them to my gma and aunt, and then they reimburse me. So I kinda know how you feel [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img]
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Re: I am so bummed...

A few years ago my parents just gave us money (they started doing that for my birthday as well)-- although they started giving us presents again. I do remember I was kind of bummed at getting money--- it's nice, but not fun to open.
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I totally agree Erin! I am so sorry [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]
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Old 12-18-2006, 09:30 AM   #6
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My parents have gotten to the point that they tell me to buy what I want - with my credit card, send them the receipt and they will send me a check. So - I would love it if there was at least something under the tree for me...
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My Dad sends me a check each year to do with what I want. I usually buy DSs and DH something from him and put it under the tree.
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Old 12-18-2006, 10:10 AM   #8
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I agree Erin, my family hasn't gotten to that point yet. Usually they know what I need and get that for me.
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I'm sorry Erin! Why don't use your Dad's card for your next WDW Trip!!!! Hang in there Buddy!!
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I've had that happen to me a few times and it bothered me too. We always try to put some thought into what we get our relatives.
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I am so sorry Erin! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img]
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The last time I went "home" for Christmas I was in college and my stepmother couldn't have made me feel more unwelcome. I only asked for *one* thing, a heating pad, something that my doctor prescribed. She told me that they weren't made out of money and I got those stick-on heating pads instead. I also got some socks. I felt like such an after-after-afterthought watching her and my father open up present after present, I had to choke back the tears b/c I knew I'd just be called selfish if I didn't. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] Hope they get the spirit back soon! (Mine did. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/082502yes_prv.gif[/img])
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Re: I am so bummed...

You are not alone. I totally understand and would also be upset. They didn't take the time to find a gift for you. It's not the gift that counts, sure, but they also didn't even do the gift! [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

The magic of Christmas is also gone in my house. My girls are too old to get excited about Santa. They don't want to bake cookies or make crafts anymore. My DD17 last night went to bed instead of helping decorate the tree-- and we had waited for her all day while she was at work! I miss the little crafts they used to make me for presents and how excited they used to be on Christmas morning.

Luckily, I will be seeing my nieces and nephew on Saturday, and they are all still young enough to believe in Santa-- so I will get some joy out of seeing them.
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Re: I am so bummed...

Know how you feel.
You'd think DH would be able to think of ONE thing to give me, but he couldn't, so I gave him a list of 4 or 5 things I might like.
THEN - he IMed me (from another computer IN the house -couldn't even walk up the stairs to talk to me) and asked me to order MY Christmas gift (he also told me what it was), and use MY bank account to do it.

SO, I feel for you. I guess the thought counts, but some effort counts a bit more.
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I am sorry, Erin!

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