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Old 05-06-2005, 05:22 AM   #16
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Old 05-06-2005, 05:57 AM   #17
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On May 31, 2004 I signed up for three months on eHarmony at a cost of $100 US. I had gone almost two years without a date at that point so figured, "why not?" I got over 100 matches and one date. I went to Baltimore on September 6, 2004 to meet her and while we didn't "click", we still correspond. After the date ended, I got robbed on my way home. Shaken up, when I arrived home I cancelled my now-expired membership and prayed to the Lord: "Lord, I can't do this anymore. Every time I chase some woman over the Net, bad things happen to me". (I had split up two years before with a woman I'd met in an AOL chatroom who was more interested in a meal ticket than in a boyfriend.) "If it be in Your will, find me a girlfriend. If not, then not." Less than two months later, I met my present girlfriend through two mutual friends at work. We've been dating for a little more than six months.

Online dating, as others have said, is an option for some, but it's a good idea to be careful.

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Old 05-06-2005, 06:06 AM   #18
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Old 05-06-2005, 09:59 AM   #19
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Robin, I don't have any dating advice for you, but I just wanted to remind you that you are a lovely girl and you will meet the right person. You are certainly not desperate either. I say go for it!!

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I couldn't have put it better myself.

Robin, having met you, you certainly don't come across as aloof - you come across as being great fun and for my money, any guy who doesn't look past a photo isn't worth having.

Best of luck with e-harmony Robin - keep us posted with how it goes!
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I can't give you any advice as I am older than you (40, never married) and have gone longer than you w/o a date (my last date was March 1994!). But I can sympathize w/ you! I have toyed w/ the idea of EHarmony myself. If you decide to do it, please post your thoughts, etc about it (or PM me if you don't want to go public!).

I keep telling myself that the Lord has other plans for me and that's why I'm not married, and everytime I start to accept it, someone chimes in w/ "Oh, you don't know what God has in mind, don't give up!", and that gets me all wound up about it all over again. I'm such a loser!!!

Anyway, good luck and God's blessings on whatever you decide!
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Robin, I don't have any dating advice for you, but I just wanted to remind you that you are a lovely girl and you will meet the right person. You are certainly not desperate either. I say go for it!!

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I couldn't have put it better myself.

Robin, having met you, you certainly don't come across as aloof - you come across as being great fun and for my money, any guy who doesn't look past a photo isn't worth having.

Best of luck with e-harmony Robin - keep us posted with how it goes!

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I couldn't agree more Robin! I haven't met you (or any other passporters yet!) but you can get to know people in many different ways. I agree that anyone who is just looking at looks is very shallow and not worth dating anyway! Good luck to you and please keep us posted! And remember that Beauty comes from within-remember Beauty and the Beast (my FAVORITE Disney movie!!)
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Give it a try
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Why not, Robin?!? I have met the most wonderful people on-line!

Before I met my DH, I was so tired of dating and getting hurt. I had even decided to stop waiting around and bought my own house. I was quite happy on my own and then here comes my goofy DH. We started dating when I was 33, married when I was 34 and had a baby when I was 35 . . . so you just never know when it's going to happen - - usually when you're not looking.

I think eHarmony would be an excellent idea. You're a smart lady, so you can tell the princes from the frogs.

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Go for it Robin, but just be careful. Keep us updated.
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Trying E-Harmony would certainly be interesting.

I would also see about joining any kinds of groups that interest you in your area as ways to meet new people. Nature Conservancy, Rails to Trails, Girl Scouting, Planning boards for the town, Museum docent, or hospital volunteer....as some examples of places to look for new friends.

It's been my experience and that of most of my acquantainces that you will meet that special someone when you aren't looking for them. It's more important for you to do things that you enjoy and get you out meeting all sorts of people.

Keep a smile on your face and greet people warmly every day.

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