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Old 05-02-2005, 09:37 AM   #16
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I would wait until closer as well because you will have been working for a little longer and then it should be easier to ask...dont you hate when bosses dont understand the importance of family time together.
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Old 05-02-2005, 09:40 AM   #17
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If you have vacation time...take it and don't feel bad. That is what vacation is for!!!
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It's a really tough decision, but I'll share this with you. A frind of mine has lost two jobs for this very same reason. Just starting a job and then taking the time off for vacation. Think about it...if you called in sick there's nothing they could do. But just the fact that you're taking the days off for a vacation makes it look bad in their eyes. So, I guess the moral of this story is...if you really want to keep this job I'd say don't go. But it sounds like the boss is a jerk anyway so...have fun!!!
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Old 05-02-2005, 10:40 AM   #19
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I would wait until closer as well because you will have been working for a little longer and then it should be easier to ask...dont you hate when bosses dont understand the importance of family time together.

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I agree with waiting a little longer to ask although not waiting to ask at the last moment. You did just start your job a few months ago and if he's giving you grief already, I can't imagine he'd be thrilled with a vacation request so soon. I also think that if this is his attitude, it doesn't sound like a great work environment Some people just don't get that there is life outside of work and that's just sad.
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Rachel,

I agree with the others who have said to hold off on putting in the vacation request this soon. October is 5 months away. That gives you 4 more months of work time under your belt before you could put your request in if you gave him 4 weeks notice about your two days off. Also, even with vacation accrual, it would seem that you would have accrued at least 2 days vacation by then and by law you are entitled to take those days.

I sympathize with you - I have worked for companies in the past that lay the guilt trip on you for having a life outside of work. Needless to say, I am not with those companies anymore. With the boss I have now, I don't even have to ask for time off - I just add it to his calendar so he knows when I am going to be on vacation. If I have the time accrued, he has never fought with me about not taking it. If your boss now is already giving you grief, I would say the near future is not a good time to put in a vacation request. Let some more time build up and then submit it in writing.

Good luck & hope it all works out for you
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Rachel your boss sounds like Allan's boss who owns the company. It's like getting blood out of a stone asking for time off. You need time off to be productive at work, it sounds like he should chill out a bit.

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I get 3 weeks paid vacation per year, so it's usually not a problem to take the time when I need to.
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I don't know Rachel, I feel like I'm in the minority here. You seem to already know your answer, I mean, how he's going to react. You just started this job in March? I wouldn't ask for anything just yet.

I would definitely wait until about 2 weeks before - I wouldn't tell him any sooner.

I think you will be walking on eggshells with him no matter when you ask! It's his company and he expects his employees to be there. The workaholic thing is totally out of your control. My husband used to not mind if his employees took time off (paid or otherwise) as long as they got their work done. Doesn't sound like this guy is as kind.

Good luck on this one. I hope you won't be out looking for a job because of it!
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Sounds like your boss has an issue... and it's not with you. He owns the company right? So he expects people to be like him and work TONS of hours... Nope sorry.

Rachel - do you accrue vacation leave? If so - you are entitled to take it (the law says so). I would make the request in writing (as long as you have the time accrued).

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If you have the vacation time, then it's yours to use. He should not be making you feel guilty for using what is rightfully yours.

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I would wait until a little closer to time too . . . and put your foot down!!! Be firm! Like Marnie said, you just say "This is when I am taking some time off. Thanks very much. Have a nice day. Buh-bye." He doesn't need to know where you are going or why either!

When I was working, I had the same problem with getting time off (and I worked at day care - in Freeport, ME in fact - which was overstaffed, so it wasn't like they were going to miss me or anything!) My boss there would ask me everytime I needed to leave early or take a day or more off "What is the purpose of this time off?" I had to tell her every time it was "personal and none of her d--n business!"

Is this grumpiness something recent with your boss or has it always been like this? If it is recent, you could just hope that it is new baby "no sleep" related and that it will blow over soon. If not, then he just sounds like he needs a punch in the nose!
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Yea, it might be a good idea to wait until it gets closer. You still have a lot of time before your trip so don't worry about asking now, once it gets closer hopefully your boss will have had time to cool off a bit, and you'll have been working there longer!
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