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Old 06-01-2015, 11:11 AM   #1
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What's wrong with me?!

I figured I could share a thought with my Passporter Family.

We are leaving for our 8 day/7 night trip to Disney World in 3.5 days and I am not excited about it at all. I have no idea what's wrong with me. I haven't thought about packing or anything.

I think the issue is, is that my best friend is going to be visiting from California in July and I'm more excited about that than about this trip.

I want to be excited for this trip but it's just not happening...I kind of feel bad about it.

Maybe when I start packing I will get more excited?

Sorry for the rambling thought...Just seems a little out of character for me. LOL
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Old 06-01-2015, 11:23 AM   #2
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it is OK and normal in my opinion. Personally since we hit the 180 day mark and made reservations I'm no longer as excited about the trip. And now I'm worried about "anticipointment".

The excitement will come and you will have a great trip and make great memories. Just relax and enjoy what ever happens.

Also being more excited about a person coming to see you seems very exciting. That is a much more personal joy than any trip.
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Have you reviewed your FP+ and dining reservations lately? What about your trip plan? Wait until you drive under those arches. The magic will hit you. Just wait and see.
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Old 06-01-2015, 11:34 AM   #4
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I had a very similar feeling before my April trip. I know I lose excitement when I think about all the work I need to go before I can leave and what will be waiting when I get back.

I do not think you need to feel excited about a trip. Just go and enjoy the time with your family/friends.
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I have had the same feeling right before some of my trips as well. Once you get there, it comes right back. I think some of the fun planning is done and the more chore-like items remain. Have a wonderful time and also have a great time in July with your friend!
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That happens to me too. I think with all the work that goes into the planning, it just wore me out and the closer to the time we got, I just was thinking I could not wait for the trip to be over. That was until...we got on the Magical Express! I then started to relax and we had a really good time. I hope you have a fantastic time!
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Perfectly normal - it happens to me too. With only a few days to go the "mandatory" stuff (laundry, bills, things that need to be done) has to come first, not the "fun" stuff (planning, anticipating, etc). And no matter how much someone may try to convince me otherwise, packing for vacation is not fun, it is a lot of work. The excitement will come back - it'll probably be last minute, but it'll come.
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I think it is perfectly normal. I know sometimes when I start thinking about all the things I need to do at home before leaving for vacation it can put a damper on the mood for the trip.
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I get that a lot when going to WDW. You are not weird at all.
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The past several trips I find that I'm not really excited the 2 or 3 weeks before, but by the time I need to pack, I feel the excitement building. for the excitement to kick in.
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I too lose the excitement & anticipation starting about a month out as the list of things needing to be done seems to continually grow, no matter how many things I manage to cross off of it. It does come back but usually not until I'm at the airport & through security & then they bring their good friend relief with them.
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I'm excited right now but I lose my excitement the closer I get to my vacation because I dread it being over & having to come back to reality. The trip takes forever to get here & is over before you know it..... So depressing.
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Happens to me every time we go, along with the absolute certainty that something bad is going to happen. (Anxiety anyone??? ) You'll get your excitement back!
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I call that the calm before the storm. LOL I do that too.
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