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Old 05-08-2013, 09:52 PM   #61
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I agree completely with the counseling suggestion, sometimes just saying things out loud to a third party really helps things to be heard a little better. I am so sorry you are going through this.
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I agree completely with the counseling suggestion, sometimes just saying things out loud to a third party really helps things to be heard a little better. I am so sorry you are going through this.
Thank you but my divorce has benn complete.... Started January 2012. I appreciate a lot though
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Welcome back! I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that, but it sounds as if life has worked out better for you now.
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I'll chime in that I think counseling is a good idea. I'll also share that I have been through the same kind of thing, and I also couldn't imagine my life without my ex. On the day of our first counseling appointment, he announced that he wouldn't show up and he was filing for divorce. I was devastated.

But, we cooperated the best we could. I told him I wanted only one thing, the safety and security of my son. The now ex reluctantly agreed that life primarily with me was the best option for our child.

I won't bore you with other details, except to say that, today, despite the pain and anguish, my ex and I are the best of friends. I didn't know if it would be possible, but we are and I trust him with everything I have, including my son and my life. I even sometimes wonder if we might someday reunite. I doubt it, since he's recently remarried (now that's another story all together!), but you never know in this life what kinds twists and turns you might take.

I'll definitely be remembering you. Keep your chin up, and know that you have friends here. Hang in there. Whatever happens, you will survive and you can thrive again!
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Sorry...didn't see your update until I posted. Continued best wishes as you move forward.
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Thank you Joelsmom -- that was a very kind thing for you to share Everyone is so nice on this site - I am glad I logged back on for all the Disney magic.

I'm also gald to hear that things worked out the best for you and your family
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Sometimes, things that we think we won't survive turn out to be huge blessings in disguise.

I went through what you went through in 2009. I've moved on and since remarried. My life now is a complete 360 of what it was back then and I will tell you that if a genie popped out of a magic lamp and told me they could undo the divorce and I could have my old life back; I would run away - fast.
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