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Old 12-26-2011, 10:06 AM   #1
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Rant about in-laws and gifts.

Many of you know there is no love lost between me and Lenny's family and have read my complaints over the past few years of getting there and there only being gift cards and/or money for Abby instead of some sort of toy or book or something she can use while there. I fully expected that yesterday so we went with Abby's DS in hand and she was given permission to sit at the table and play it (and basically ignore everyone the way they ignore her). Needless to say, I was very surprised to find Abby actually had a gift to open yesterday (along with a gift card). What was the gift you ask? Candyland!?!? Yes, you read that right. My 11 year old daughter was given the game of Candyland. Abby might be Autistic but the doesn't mean she has the intelligence of a 3 year old. There's many a things I could say in this thread about those people but I'll keep it family friendly and not say anything other than this just confirms what I've known for years - they don't know Abby nor do they care about her. On the bright note though, Santa knows exactly what Abby loves and plays with because she got all sorts of age and interest appropriate gifts so she's not missing out on "good" gifts.

Thanks for letting me rant about "them".
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Old 12-26-2011, 10:39 AM   #2
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Thankfully Santa knows how to shop for Abby.
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....I know EXACTLY where you are coming from regarding age / skill appropriate...or even just plain APPROPRIATE gifts that were given to my kids by family members. It was always one of our family "traditions" to hear the rants from my kids...and or wife.....after we left her parents house after being there for Christmas day. My son when he was younger...was a HUGE Star Wars fanatic (still is somewhat..at the age of 26!!)...and even when knowing this...my sister in law gets him Star Trek toys. The same was true with items that my in-laws got for my wife (their OWN daughter!) and our daughters. It wasn't a case of being clueless...it was a case of not caring one tiny bit. THAT was what drove my wife so completely nutso over the whole thing....because she agonized over every detail of buying a gift for someone else...and they couldn't care less. Perhaps...it's a good thing that her family doesn't associate with her (and us) any longer. There is just so much of being dumped on that anyone can handle....
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Yes, in some respects you're right Joanne but typically her "gift" is the gift card so IMO they should have just stuck with that this year.
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So sorry!

Did you read about how Brent got post-it's, a pen from a hotel, and a roll of tape from Todd's sister?

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Abby is blessed to have a wonderful "Santa" at home your doing a great job don't let other distract you too much they are not worth it! But always vent here that's what we are here for
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Did you read about how Brent got post-it's, a pen from a hotel, and a roll of tape from Todd's sister?

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OMG - no I didn't. I wasn't on the boards at all yesterday and I haven't gotten very far today. I'm sorry to hear he got those. Part of me is glad to know it's not just happening to us. The other part is amazed that people can be that stupid/clueless/lazy - whatever term you want to put to it.
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My daughter is 4 and got Candyland for xmas from my brother but my 11 yr old boy has begged me to play with him. He loves playing the game.
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We have had the same issues with the inlaw and the outlaws (my family). They buy the most rediculous gifts sometimes. We tried giving them list, telling them the kids are bigger now and don't want another Hanna Montana calender or whatever but they don't listen. My kids expect it now and its not a big deal. Our big Christmas is with just our immeadiate family and I try to make that a special and memorable time for our kids.
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So sorry!

Did you read about how Brent got post-it's, a pen from a hotel, and a roll of tape from Todd's sister?

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Wow, that is right up there with the wrapped up cat in National Lampoons Christmas Vacation.
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I would stay home next year.
I try to stay home every year - and in 12 years of marriage, it's only happened twice . The first time we were having a really bad snowstorm and I refused to set foot out of the house with Abby to go get a gift card so Lenny went by himself. The second time was when Christmas was at his sisters house in Maine. We had the old van which we didn't want to drive that far, Lenny couldn't get time off of work at that late time (they always do things like one week in advance) and we were the only ones in the family not invited to stay in his sisters house. We were told "BiL and Sis normally come down for Christmas then go home the same day, why can't you do the same thing?" Needless to say, we said thanks but no, we're not going to do it.

Actually now that I think about it, it might have happened a third year - the year my father died. He died on Dec 23, 2004 and I have very few memories of that year. I remember some of the events from the day he went but not many. I remember one thing that happened on Christmas day (it happened here at home) but nothing else so I have no idea what we did. I hope that I told them to take a long walk off a short pier and that we weren't going over for Christmas but I just have no idea what we did.
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