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Old 04-23-2003, 01:49 PM   #16
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hi Liz!
i just wanted to say do not give up hope!
each person is unique. There is a higher power and miracles CAN and DO happen! my thoughts & prayers are with you. Laura
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Liz,

My prayers are with both you and DH. I have no advice for you - just pixie dust - this must be so difficult for both of you to come to terms with.

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Liz, my heart and prayers go out to you. You know your husband better than I do, but for your best interest considering what lays ahead for both of you, honesty is necessary to help you and him cope with the grieving process. Peace and God be with you.
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Old 04-23-2003, 05:59 PM   #19
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Liz,
i have been praying for God to surround you with his comfort & love. Laura
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Old 04-23-2003, 06:20 PM   #20
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Liz,

I am so sorry to hear your news. I'm thinking that your husband just does not want to face your prognosis. I know that Andy is that way - doesn't ever want to deal with anything that is serious. I will keep you both in prayer - and here is a big {{{{hug}}}} for you, too.
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Liz, no advice here except what has already been said, but I can send you loads of pixie dust and lots of prayers!
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I think you should drag him into counseling or to talk to your doctors. He needs a third party to tell him how his behavior affects you...negatively. {{{hugs}}}

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No advise here Liz, jsut my very best wishes, thoughts, hopes and dreams are coming your way. I am thinking good thoughts just for you!
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You are in our prayers. Best wishes to you.
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Thanks everyone. Your support means a lot!
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Liz,
I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am that you are going through all this & your husband isn't stepping up to the plate.
I have been through the whole cancer thing with my mother in law, my dear aunt & several relatives, & had a cancer scare myself, & I just wish I lived near you so I could come give you a hand!
Hang in there, & do tell your dh off! He needs to get with it & help you!!!
Take care & (((hugs))) to you!
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Liz,
How scary! My dad was told 34 yrs. ago he had a very rare form of vascular cancer,Hodkin's, and cancer of the lung and that he wouldn't live to see me start kindergarten. I talk to him every day. I am 37 and treasure every day I have with Daddy.
Mom couldn't handle the stress of a sick spouse and told Dad to leave. Step-Mommy is great.
Just a suggestion- maybe, if you wrote down what you are thinking, and give it to him on a Sat. morning? and ask him to talk to you about it in 2 hours? that way, you can say what you want without the emotions getting the better of you.

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I just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Ya know, I would try to talk with him, or atleast write him a letter. I agree withthe other people on this board when they say that it is just his way of dealing with it. BUT TELL HIM.


My MIL was diagnosed with (what sounds like) the same type of cancer that you have. It DID spread to her bones and lymph nodes........


3 years ago. She is now cancer free. She was told to "make her arrangments". Miracles DO happen, I see them everyday. PM me if you need to.

I am performing at a American Cancer Society Benefit later this month, my song, goes out to you.
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Just wanted to add more prayers and pixie dust your way!!!!!!!
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