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Old 01-12-2009, 03:56 PM   #1
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Overprotective Mom Alert

Okay, Grace is now 18, graduating from high school in May, and is not going to senior beach week in Maryland. She's going to..........

Disney World. June 1 -5, four nights.

With two, possibly three BFF's. Unchaperoned. They are all going off to college in August. It's a total package deal, meals, CBR, MYW tickets, ME. No driving necessary, but still, a mom worries.

Please tell me it's okay to let her go without me and that they will be safe!
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Old 01-12-2009, 04:08 PM   #2
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that you won't be too worried and that the girls will have a great time! I was allowed to travel to DL with friends at that age and we had a blast.
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They'll be safer at WDW than most everywhere else.
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It'll be fine! My DD (19) just got back from a 5 day trip to NYC with a friend. They encountered everything from their flight being cancelled due to a storm, to their hostel being evacuated by the NYFD! "Kids" are a lot more resourceful than you think, and although I did worry a bit, I had faith that she would be ok. And she was. She came home more mature than when she left and she has an awesome story to tell her grandkids some day...

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I think WDW is a fantastic, safe choice for a senior trip. If she's going to be on her own in August anyway, I say let her go! She'll be fine.
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DD went to Disney for spring break with her best friend her senior year in HS. They survived a couple of hitches, including the fact that DD was still 17 and technically could not sign for things on her own.

They stayed as DVC members at the SSR and flew down stand-by as her friend's father is a pilot. That was the worst part for me, not knowing if she would get on a flight and which flight she would end up flying home on. The other problem is my DD is now a huge SSR fan and it's her preferred accommodation.

I'm sure your DD will do fine. It's also good practice for her to be truly independent before heading off to school.

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Another Smother of 1 here.

Howevah - at 18, I went down the shore with my 23 year old boyfriend the summer after I graduated (to Wildwood which I know inside out) and my parents didn't so much as bat an eyelash when I told them. 'Course, I was working three jobs at te time and worked my tail off to get the time off from all three at once, so I think I proved my maturity long before the trip.

Reasonable caution is all they'll need as long as they stick together.
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I have a DD the almost the same age and I am the MOST overprotective mom in the world. I would let her go.
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I too am the mother of a dd and although mine is no where near old enough as mine starts high school next year I could see me letting her go down to WDW for senior week. Especially since I know what happens at the shore for senior week. I'd rather my dd be in WDW with girlfriends that at the shore with drunk boys. My only problem would be that I would be jealous that I wasn't there too.
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Safer at WDW than at the beach for senior week!!!

for you, Joan...it's hard to let them go...
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I went to WDW with my best friend for my 18th birthday and had a blast. My mom is a big worrier and I was surprised she let me go!

Your DD will be safe at WDW and what a great first vacation without the 'rents to experience!
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I would rather my child go to WDW than the Bahamas (which I did when I was 17). You know they'll be in a more secure place, restricted access to alcohol (holy cow, the Bahamas was one drunk fest and I was 17). My parents sure did trust me enough to go there without chaperones (was not a school sponsored trip - one teacher organized it on his own). I made it back and made conscious decisions not to overindulge like some of the kids did. Your DD will be fine!!!!
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