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Old 10-10-2006, 07:43 PM   #31
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I really don't have anything to add. Just continue to love him and listen to him.Counselling will help. it's had dealing with your grief and his too. If he's as smart as you say he is, missing a little school won't matter. You're in my thought's. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/grouphug.gif[/img]
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I am so sorry for you and your son, this has to be one of the hardest transitions to go through. Be patient with yourself, your son, and the grieving process...there is no time table on healing. Your love and support will help you through and hopefully some grief counseling will help your son work through his emotions. Sounds like he is a bright kid and will bounce back academically when he is ready. I wish you both prayers and pixies. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img] [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/fairy2.gif[/img]
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I don't know if they have a similar program in Ohio, but here in Rhode Island they have a program called Friends Way. It is a free program for children & teens who have lost a parent or a loved one. They meet once a week in the evening. The children's groups are divided into 4 different age groups. They talk about all the pains that come with their loss, while they're eating pizza. The surviving parent participates in a group of their own helping them to cope with their own loss, while trying to help their child.

The kids that have participated in it really enjoy it. Due to the support group type set-up they are able to realize that they are not the only young person to lose someone close. They make new friends. All of them talk about liking the pizza!

Like I said, I don't know if they have a similar program near you, but you may want to ask the school guidance counselor, psychologist and/or social worker. There must be some kind of support group for children/teens near you! There certainly is a need for it!

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I really don't have anything to add. Just continue to love him and listen to him. Counseling will help. It's hard dealing with your grief and his too. If he's as smart as you say he is, missing a little school won't matter. You're in my thought's.
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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/yeahthat.gif[/img] Exactly what I was gonna say! Your family remains in my thoughts and prayers!
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Grief counseling for your son AND for the whole family is a good idea.

I hope things get better soon.

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Update: Leon went off to school this morning with only minor urging. He was not happy about it and still complained of an upset tummy. I told him it was probably more nerves than anything now. He really wants to be in the last football game of the year and he can't unless he shows up for practice so I think that motivated him some.
He wouldn't eat breakfast though, and I know he will start to crash about 10:00 since his lunch time isn't until 12:20.
Tonight we go to counseling.
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