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Old 06-05-2006, 08:22 AM   #31
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Well, I must say, it was special. I picked up the birthday pin at MK the day before my b'day and that was a little confusing for the kids, but they and I loved it that so many people wished me happy b'day and treated me so well. (Actually got tired of the little Mickey-sprinkled cupcakes!) Next time I think we will plan for near one of the kids' b'days, if not on it. They are young still to "get" the idea of the transfer, and the almost-6-yo is totally b'day obsessed as it is, so moving it too much would be unbearably exciting! I'm really glad I did decide to make the celebration public. Also loved seeing others celebrating, especially those bride-and-groom ears!
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Old 06-05-2006, 11:25 AM   #32
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Re: \"Faking\" birthdays?

I'm one of those who "celebrate" a birthday - because we ARE celebrating a specific celebration, just not on the actual day according to the calendar. However, we don't wear the "It's my birthday" button unless it's actually the day of the persons birth.

My 40th is coming up and I've strong-armed my siblings to bring my neices and nephews to Disney. Unfortunately, their schedules didn't allow for them to join me on my actual birthday, so we're going three weeks later. Am I going to call our Grand Gathering "Celebrating Eileen's 40th?" -- sure. Will I wear the button? -- nope.

But that's me - as with all decisions, you need to go with what's in your heart and not put your feelings/mores/morals/ethics on other people's decisions.
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Happy Birthday, Robin! It's my b-day too.
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:54 AM   #34
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Re: \"Faking\" birthdays?

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I'd think about it this way. What message would you be sending your kids by LYING about the birthday!!!!

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Well, with my kids the message I sent was that it was more important for them to be in school on the day of their actual birthday. We often have to move the "official" celebration of their birthdays anyway - more convenient to have a party on the weekend, but then their birthdays are often near Easter so can't celebrate that weekend, ect. We went to Disney over Easter break '05, which meant we were a week early celebrating DD's 10th and 3 weeks early celebrating DS's 7th. We discussed ahead of time that their birthday party would be whatever character meal they chose on the day we designated to be their birthday celebration day. They got a birthday pin in whatever park we were in on their day, and had a wonderful time. On their actual birthday we just had a small celebration for the 4 of us - same as we would have had we opted to have their birthday party at home on a weekend day other than their real birthdate.

For many of us, a trip to Disney only occurs rarely. I wasn't going to have my kids miss out on the magic of a Disney birthday.
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Old 06-06-2006, 09:43 AM   #35
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I'd think about it this way. What message would you be sending your kids by LYING about the birthday!!!!

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Well, with my kids the message I sent was that it was more important for them to be in school on the day of their actual birthday.

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I think that is a good message. I have taken dd out of school for trips in the past (WDW when she was in 2nd & 4th grade and some 2 day hockey tournaments) but next year she is starting Middle School and she told me that she didn't want to miss any school days for our 2007 trip. Luckily for me my birthday is Easter Sunday so although it will be very busy we will spend 5 days in WDW without her missing any school. Her birthday is 6/16 so in 2008 we are going to go down for her birthday and leave when school is out which is usually around the 13th or 14th. I know that good students deserve a break and a little reward but the older they get the harder it is to miss school.
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I'd think about it this way. What message would you be sending your kids by LYING about the birthday!!!!

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Well, with my kids the message I sent was that it was more important for them to be in school on the day of their actual birthday. We often have to move the "official" celebration of their birthdays anyway - more convenient to have a party on the weekend, but then their birthdays are often near Easter so can't celebrate that weekend, ect. We went to Disney over Easter break '05, which meant we were a week early celebrating DD's 10th and 3 weeks early celebrating DS's 7th. We discussed ahead of time that their birthday party would be whatever character meal they chose on the day we designated to be their birthday celebration day. They got a birthday pin in whatever park we were in on their day, and had a wonderful time. On their actual birthday we just had a small celebration for the 4 of us - same as we would have had we opted to have their birthday party at home on a weekend day other than their real birthdate.

For many of us, a trip to Disney only occurs rarely. I wasn't going to have my kids miss out on the magic of a Disney birthday.

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I completely agree. I don't have children, but I am extremely close with my niece and nephew. Both of them were born in March, but could not afford missing too much school. So we all went on a big family trip in July, where they both celebrated their birthdays. My niece was 7 and my nephew was 8. It's not lying, it's celebrating.

And I thnk implying that other people are bad parents (and are teaching their kids to "lie" to celebrate a birthday) is very rude [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif[/img]
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When we were there for Nicholas' 5th birthday in 2002, The Guest Services Cast Member at the Magic Kingdom noticed the shirts we had made up ("Nicholas is 5 today".. "I'm 5 Today") when we were getting his birthday button and told us to make sure we got the birthday buttons at the other parks when we visited them, so it's "unofficially" taken for granted that people celebrate their birthday all-vacation-long, not just on their actual birthday. I say go for it!
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I am taking my DS to WDW right before his birthday (while they are still out for summer break). He turns 13 3 days after we return and school has already started. He and I talked about whether to celebrate his birthday (we've never done this before) and he thought he'd like to do that and wear a button on one day during the trip.
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We taken WDW trips around my daughter's birthday for the past 2 years and will be on our Disneyland trip just before her birthday next year . . . and we've celebrated every time.

WHY? Because the trip was a gift to her and meant as a celebration for her birthday. Will we celebrate on days that aren't her actual birthday, you'd better believe we will.

We aren't teaching our daughter to lie. In fact, when someone asks what we are celebrating, we'll say "We're celebrating Emilie's birthday this week." And it's the truth.
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I wonder if the people who find this "dishonest" are under the impression that the suggestion is being made to just <u>say</u> it's a birthday in order to get special attention from the CMs...

I don't think anyone here is suggesting that - this is a pretty darned ethical group! (Just read the reactions to using the resort mugs for more than one trip!)

I think we're talking about people who are traveling near to a celebration or who are traveling specifically to celebrate something -- but can't do it on the ACTUAL day of the event. Since they are celebrating a real event, they are entitled to happiness and, if the pixie dust is flying that day, any special treatment from the Cast Members or other guests is a nice bonus.

But, that's just my humble opinion.
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[img]/ubb/images/graemlins/yeahthat.gif[/img]We have taken several trips with our DGD around her birthday and we celebrate her Bday during the trip even though it is not EXACTLY on her Bday. Last year we went one week past her special day still we let the CM at the podium know she was celebrating her Bday at the CRT breakfast...she received a special mat and autographs that she treasures! WE never said it was her actual birthday but just that we were celebrating and we were. [img]/ubb/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]
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Re: \"Faking\" birthdays?

I think you're post (Caldercup) is very eloquent and describes the actions concisely. I struggled with this issue regarding planning a trip near DSs b'day. I wouldn't want him to wear the pin but I would let CMs know we were celebrating his big day.
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We leave Monday for our trip celebrating my 40th birthday.

I plan on getting a birthday pin from each park. I also plan on taking my Sharpie and writing "UN" before birthday on the pin. Thus, making the pin an "UNbirthday" pin.

As I said before, I can't go to WDW on my actual birthday because I am a teacher. I have had this idea for many months now. We are celebrating my birthday and each day will be an "UNBirthday" celebration.
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That's a great idea about making it an "un"birthday pin. We can never be at WDW for DD's birthday because it's during the school-year. We decided to celebrate her 13th birthday when we go in December because we'll actually be there on Dec. 21 (two months after the actual day) and it's her 13th trip.
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