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Type A planning with a Type Z hubby.... suggestions?
I hope some of the rest of you Type A planners out there are married to laid back men like my DH because I need some advice. He is dream to travel with because he doesn't get all up in arms over the "small stuff" that gets me running around like a chicken with my head cut off, and he can find a silver lining in any disaster so we spend a lot of time laughing no matter the situation.
HOWEVER, planning with such a laid back person is hard because it takes SOO much to get him really excited about anything in the planning stages. He's "fine" with everything. He'd never get upset about any PS choice I made (or was unable to get into), but by the same token he doesn't get all google-eyed over the idea of eating at V&As the way I do....he'll do it,he'll get all dressed up and enjoy the experience, but it's hard to know if it's worth the extra money when he won't get very interested in it until dinner night--I have to know 90 days out we're going to be $200 worth of excited over this dinner, or the Illuminations cruise...he just says everything I mention sounds cool.
Some of you may have read about our honeymoon turret debacle (I still can't bring myself to cancel the ressie though), but he's kinda put off by the GF now is more interested in the Yacht Club. I can understand the apeal there, but I keep thinking of the two full weeks we spent deciding to stay at the GF only to have him change it during a 10 min conversation. I am extremely excited about GF, not that I couldn't get excited over the Yacht Club I can get excited about ANY Disney options, but I don't want to change our reservation for him to just "like" where we're staying--I want dancing around with excitement and if he can't do that then I wonder if we should go with where I can feel that way because he does take his cue from me a lot of times.
He's suggested we just do whatever I want, but of course I don't WANT that I want us to both want to go to the same place. Do any of you have this situation with your plans?? I get excited over planning and he doesn't--I can handle that, but I need imput from him so that we're both doing what makes us happy, but he'd like it all to spontanously fall into place--do ppl really think that happens??? especially with Disney??
An example, one of the things he's expressed the most interest in is concierge service since we got spoiled at AKL in Jan, then he hears it is an extra $300 for our Yacht Club stay and he says we shouldn't do it because it's too expensive. How can he list it as a 9 on a 1-10 scale and then offer to drop it like it doesn't mean anything to him??
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I want us to both want to go to the same place. Do any of you have this situation with your plans?? I get excited over planning and he doesn't--I can handle that, but I need imput from him so that we're both doing what makes us happy, but he'd like it all to spontanously fall into place--do ppl really think that happens??? especially with Disney?? 
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