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Family problems~ I am near tears!

Let me start this post by quoting a plaque I saw today at Kennywood Park ( I should have bought it)
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The difference between inlaws & outlaws is that outlaws are wanted!!
<font size="2" face="Comic Sans MS, Arial">As I wrote in my previous post about my stepFIL & him being a party pooper on our upcoming Disney trip..
Well, today was a HORRIBLE day & I just don't know what to do.
MIL wanted to go to Kennywood Amusement park today & we all went.. Everything was going along wonderful... stepFIL was even riding a lot of the rides I would never expect ( for you Pittsburghers he went on The Exterminator among others ) & I kept saying to MIL & DH " Wow, Dick is really doing great, he is trying so many new things" & DH & MIL agreed.
Well, DH & DS got in line to go on Phantoms Revenge ( A pretty wild Roller Coaster) & the rest of us chickens decided to wait..StepFIL & other DS had to go to the bathroom & proceeded to walk to what they thought was the closest one. I said to MIL " There's a bathroom around the corner" Well, MIL gets all flustered & starts running after stepFIL ( like he's 2YO) she does'nt catch up to them so she decides to go to the bathroom herself.
Okay.. DD & I are talking with a friend we met there & stepFIL comes up to me in a huff screaming " Where's Linda??" (MIL) I said "she went looking for you guys at the bathroom" He then looses it & SCREAMS "I told her to stay where she was & not leave!!" & in a tizzy fit takes off to find MIL.. My friend looks at me like stepFIL lost his mind & I was humiliated by his scene. I say goodbye & by the time I catch up to MIL & stepFIL he is SCREAMING at her that if he tells her to stay somewhere she better not leave & she is an A**, ( among other nasty words which I didn't appreciate in front of my children) he's tired of her just leaving & she better start listening..he is never doing anything with her or going anywhere with her yada yada yada...
Well people were really staring ( I am not exaggerating he was SCREAMING at the top of his lungs!!) & I felt VERY uncomfortable ( not to mention embarassed for us & MIL) so I took my kids to get an ice cream & wait for DH & DS. Meet up with DH & we get back to MIL & stepFIL & he is STILL yelling..
DH wants to go eat dinner & we walk into a little cafteria type restaurant to see the menu & stepFIL says that it's too loud he doesn't want to eat there.. DH has now HAD it & tells us that WE ( our family- the 5 of us) ARE eating there & MIL & stepFIL can do what they want!! ( Yeah Jim!!! way to stand up for yourself!) we order our food & get a table & after a couple of minutes MIL comes & sits by us & instead of being mad at her DH she is apologetic "Oh, when Dick gets tired he gets cranky!" We left the park right after dinner as a storm was headed their way & EVERY ride in the park was shut down ( I guess they are taking extraordinary precautions after the bad storm in May)
Well, StepFIL is still not speaking to MIL & she keeps trying to talk to him & baby him & he is totally ignoring her..He now has gone to bed!
Here's what's bothering me.. We have adjoining rooms at Disney & If he pulls a stunt like today we will be stuck in the room listening to him rant & rave...
This is one instance where telling MIL that we were embarassed by him will do NO good.. she will defend him & then turn it around " You get mad at Jim & yell too!"
A bit of FYI... MIL married this man for his $$$$.. He is a multi-millionaire & lets her buy ANYTHING she wants but I'm sorry NO amount of money is worth being humiliated!!!
What do we do??? I am really thinking of cancelling this trip ( & I'll probably break my kids hearts, not to mention really make DH mad!!)
WHY OH WHY DID I ASK HER TO COME ON THIS TRIP??????
You know the old saying "leave & learn" well, I think I'm learning a hard lesson..
Sorry to go on & on guys but I am sitting here with tears streaming down my face thinking of a ruined ( or VERY uncomfortable) Disney trip... Thanks for letting me vent!!! [img]graemlins/cry2.gif[/img] The one good thing that came of this is DH made us do what WE wanted & not cater to stepfIL.. that is a plus going into the trip.. We will do what we want & to heck with them!!!
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